Elise
I would tell myself to enjoy school but also work hard. I learned that the hard way by not doing as well as i would have liked my freshman year. Stay focused and NEVER give up, no matter how bad it may seem.
RIKKI
If I could travel back in time and talk to myself as a senior in high school, this is the advice I would give myself. One, do NOT go to a non-accredited college. Transferring to another university is really hard and you loose lots of college credits. Two, go to a college that meets your needs. Attend Bethel College because there are teachers there who will help you daily. Attend this college because your voice teacher you will have will do wonders with your voice and take you to another world of singing. Instead of only going there for three years, attend the college for all five years and you will double your accomplishments. Three, make friends within your first week. Do not wait because you will only feel like an outsider that much longer. Four, stay on top of homework and tests. You will have to study a lot but the oppertunities you will have offered to you in the future will be worth it. Five, believe in yourself and do not let anybody make you feel discouraged or unworthy to be a singer. Finally, work really hard in the summer and then take it easy during school.
Amber
Going back in time and talking to myself as a high school senior, know what I know now would certainly prove to be beneficial. It is true, I know so much more than before, although I still have a long way to go. I would begin by telling myself that there will be things you did not expect to struggle with that will stretch you. Similarly, there will be things you thought would be difficult, but ended up fine. While there are many new faces, do not be overwhelmed. Thought it would be easy to try and find even partial replacements for your friends at home? Establishing those friendships took time, likewise, it will take time at college as well. Use your ?thinking cap? like you were told in elementary. People often find themselves in dangerous, awkward, or painful situations because their brain was not engaged. Staying in touch with those at home, as difficult as it may be, is completely worth it in the long run. Those people are still an iatrical part of your life and who you are. Yes, things are busy and you are here to learn, but they love you and want you to succeed.
Dominique
Well first of all, congratulations on making it to college. I want to begin with, "Don't forget the past or where you came from. Only remember what you have learned." Here's the thing now, track is going to be your life. You'll practice six days a week and you're going to have to toughen up sister. When moving in, come on the same day with the rest of the freshman. You came a day early but it doesn't matter. In the room, bunk your bed right away and at semster, just switch beds with Pua. Either that or get her to bunk her bed right away. There will be more space in the room if you can raise a bed or two. Written Communications II is going to have a lot so stay ahead on Anatomy and Phisilogy as much as possible. Start that study guide of yours early. Spend some time with the roomies every now. After that, enjoy life because once second semester comes, your Saturdays will not exist, due to meets.
Joseph
Enjoy this last year of high school. Don't let it pass by too quickly because next year its time to buckle down and start working for your life. Everything you do in college with be to work towards your career in the ministry and helping all those youth. College is a time for fun and work but you have to remember to work as hard as you can and over prepare for everything. Its better to go to class and be bored because you know what the professors are talking about than to be rushing to take note of every word that comes out of thier mouth. Use your time wisely because no one will tell you when to go to sleep or when to eat. You will have to balance work, play, and general life and health. Next year will be something that you wont be prepared for and no matter what I tell you now it will be a struggle. The future holds a path that has twists and turns and ups and downs but no matter what keep your eyes up and look forward. The ultimate goal is obtainable and you will reach if you try!
Stephanie
If I was given the opportunity to travel back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would give myself some valuable advice. I would say, ?Stephanie, you need to get informed, get ready, and get excited.? My high school self would be speechless out of shock from having a visitor from the future, but that would give the more talkative wiser version of myself, more opportunity to speak. I would continue, ?Yes, get informed. It is very important that you pick a college that is the right fit for you. It does not matter where you friends are going or what they are interested in. Pick something that interest you and find a college that offers programs in that area of interest. Get ready. College is coming faster than you think, so get the education, finances, and experience you need. Spend valuable time with the people you love, but do not worry because you will see them again. Finally, get excited! Although college may seem terrifying now, you will love it and it will be some of the best years of your life.? As I look back, I think I followed my advice pretty well.
Scott
If I could go back to high school and visit myself as a senior I would tell my self not to think I know everything about my future yet. In high school I would have sworn to you that I wanted to be in secondary education as an English teacher. After examining my life I realized that I wanted to become a lawyer. I would tell my younger self to keep your options open and do not set the bar lower than what you are capable of achieving. I do not believe that I know too much more than I knew back in college. Instead, I now have experiences that one can only achieve with being in college. I have seen many things that I would tell myself to stay away from and also things that I wish I would have done. Life is all about the experiences that one can have while retaining ones morals/beliefs. I would remind myself to not get caught up in situations that compromise my own beliefs. I would tell myself to knuckle down and actually do my best in my senior year and not just skate bye in order to be more successful.
Alexandra
I would of tried to study harder and go to a better college. I would of realized what major I should of taken. I would of signed up for scholarships earlier.
Rebekah
Rebekah, determine why you want to go to college. Don't go if you don't know why, but once you do know what to pursue, pursue it with all of your heart. You will face many difficult decisions in the future. Determine what your goals and standards are before entering this new world. Write down commitments that are vital to keep, and read them daily. Do not stray from relationships, especially your parents. When school is done, they will be there to help you. They love you tremendously, and although it is important to form new relationships, don't dump the old ones. If you are not serious about college, it is not for you. If you do not want to learn, college is not for you. If you do not want study and lack sleep, college is not for you. If you do not want to pursue a dream, college is not for you.
lillian
If i went back in time and talked to myself as a highschool senior I would say "Lillian, God is about to take you on an amazing ride, Jesus is going to do amazing growing, healing, and teaching in you. You'll experience persecution and it'll be hard, but completely worth it. I'm excited for you to experience His power and love. Keep clinging to Jesus and walking in faith through this hard time, remember He's holding your hand the whole time or carrying you. Amazing beauty is going to come from your pain." and i'd give my highschool self a big hug.
Highschool was a time of survival, i've grown up in abuse. In highschool Jesus saved me and I asked Him into my life. Life was still extremely hard, i still had to survive my domestic life, and i had plenty of issues w/out the time to deal w/them but the anger, bitterness, and burden had been lifted and i knew i wasn't alone. That's why I'd tell myself of a greater hope and adventure that is coming, a time of healing-- painful as it may be sometimes.
Angela
If I could go back and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself not to stress out as much about the little things, and worry more about doing my best on my homework and finding scholarships. I also would tell myself to spend more time developing my gifts and talents. Practice piano more, write more short stories, or find some ways to expand my knowledge of sign language (the degree I'm pursuing now).
Elise
I would tell myself to take it easy and not rush into things. Focus on you studies when you get to college don't let the whirlwind of college life sweep you. Also have fun try and make an equal balance of you studies and hanging out with friends, don't just be a bookworm or don't be a socail butterfly really try and balance it all out. IT IS WORTH IT!!!
Neil
Who doesn't wish they could go back in time? Everyone wishes they could change or prevent something from happening , or simply prevent heartache or stress. Although it would be nice to go back in time, all I would need is to go back in time and reason with myself. This is what I would say.
"Congradulation on getting accepted! You're about ready to move on to the next step. You have a lot of potential, and these next years will profoundly impact who you will become. Thats not to say that you need to feel an inordinate amount of pressure in beginning college, but you need to understand that you will begin developing exponentially in the near future!"
"You will always have something to learn. Please, do not assume that there is any one person that cannot teach you something! Devope a passion for learning and get excited about any oppertunity that comes your way. Life is full of adventure, and that adventure comes to us when we grab on to oppertunities! What makes you excited? Do it! Begin by focusing on the intermediate parts of your goals, and the big picture will soon be yours. Good Luck!"
Garrett
Dear Me,
Next year you will be starting your journey as a college student. One thing I want you to never forget is the importance of relationships. While at college, you will make lifelong friends. But those friends don't magically fall into your lap. You must work at getting to know others. You must go beyond surface level. You must go deeper in your friendships. Sure, it may be scary or uncomfortable at times, but when you truly grasp the importance of close relationships, your life will never be the same. Don't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone to meet new people. And don't be afraid to be open and honest with them. Too many times we think being vulnerable is a bad thing. But you will never understand the importance of compassion and intimate friendships until you are willing to be vulnerable with those whom you trust. College is partly about going to class and earning a degree. But grades, honors, and accomplishments only last for a short time; relationships last a lifetime.
Have no fear.
Sincerely,
Me
Katie
I advise parents and students to work together to make the best college decision for the student. Take everything into consideration when choosing the right campus for you. Be sure to look at class sizes, academic quality, social activities, food quality, and cost. Be sure during your freshman year to be really involved in campus activities. Make friends that will last forever. Feel free to ask questions to upperclassman who are willing to help. Do not be scared to start a new chapter in your life.
maggie
you really should visit each college your considering.spend the night with a student who is living on campus,it helps you get a feel for dorm life.go to a class,it'll help you see how the professors are and give you a better feel for what other classes will be like.make the most of your visit at the college.you'll just know its the right choice. when your accepted and you finally move on campus,make sure you and your roomie get along.spend time with her/him.it'll help the rooming situation.make sure you make a small group of amazing friends.ones you know will make you study when you need to,but yet know when you need to have fun,and ones that will be there when your first relationship doesnt work.pick a professor you can confide in.one who will encourage you and help you succeed.make sure you follow the rules,some consequences arent fun,and some people will think that of you forever.last but not least,make the most out of it,it goes fast.so live it up!
Katrina
When looking for the right school one must take into account the fact that he or she will be there for a while, whether two or four years. It is important to figure out what you want out of this experience. Would you desire and easy fun time to party and socialize, or a place to study hard and head toward a career. Do you want to study abroad or have other valuable cultural experiences? Are you more likely to succeed in a large class or in a small class where you can get personalized attention. And also, what are your ideas for time apart from your studies, such as sports, events, extra-curricular and working. My advice, uwhether parent or student, is to sit down and look at each issue seriously and thuroughly. Choosing a major and area to study is no doubt important, but college is so much more than just learning. I is a living for the first few years of your adult life, and it will shape the rest of you life.
Nicole
Schedule visitation dates to all the colleges you are looking at. Seriously, it makes the world of difference to experience each college option and get a "feel" for the student life, chapel, professors, and activities. When I visited Bethel, I somehow knew that was the college for me, and I would be dissatisfied if I pursued any other college. To the parents, money will have a strong weight on the decision, but I can attest to the fact that some colleges that are priced higher are worth it, especially for the quality of the education, students, and lifestyle. I would hate to attend a cheap college that did not challenge me in my classes or that made me hesitant to go to school everyday because the people were unfriendly or unhelpful. I am glad to be attending a college that will teach me through vigorous classes, show me how to perform my future job in a way that honors the Lord, and that will allow me to enjoy my four years at this college. Sometimes you will get what you pay for, so that should not be that pressing of an issue, unless in desperate situations. I love my college!
Heather
I would advise anyone who is looking for a college to attend to look for a school that is both comfortable and challenging. Look for somewhere that won't make you feel like you're completely lost and unsure, but make sure it isn't too easy for you either. The best way to grow and change for the better is to have to work for things from time to time; which is really what college is all about anyway. Look for a place that has a strong academic background and a bright future. It is important that your prospective school provides the area of study that interests you and will allow you room and opportunity for a change of mind.
To parents it is important for you to feel safe sending your child to this school since the safety of one's children is the highest on the level of importance to a parent. Also, you should feel confident in the academics and the faculty. Find out if there is a way for you to be active in your child's education, and take advantage of that at every turn while still allowing your child the growth necessary.
Breanna
I would tell parents and students to visit the colleges of their choice, investigate their programs, find out about financial aid and see if the college is a good fit for you. Bethel was just right for me as I liked the small class sizes, campus, and everything they had to offer.