Katherine
I would tell myself to have confidence, take chances, and not be afraid to make mistakes. I would tell myself to follow my heart, study things I love, and do activities that make me happy. I would tell myself that you can never have too many friends, to always say hi to the person walking by and always hold the door for the person behind you, even if they are far away. I would tell myself to not get discouraged when classes are difficult, and to connect with professors because they are our greatest resource. I would also tell myself that people change, and it is okay to move away from one friend group and towards another one. I would tell myself to travel and study abroad whenever possible. I would tell myself that sometimes forgoing studying for that quiz in order to spend precious time with your friends is okay and the memories will last longer than that quiz grade. I would tell myself to use all of my skills and passions to determine a career path that would be fulfilling for me. Most importantly, I would tell myself to not take for granted the relationships and memories made.
Thomeeka
The advice that I would give to my high school senior self would be to be organized, have a schedule and know what habits work for you best. Morning classes or afternoon classes are an option. In what environment do you like to be in in order to do homework, quiet or with a group? Manage your free time so you have time to socialize as well as leave time to do work. Become involved as well. Also, you don't have to be best friends with your roommate(s). College isn't hard, it just takes a realization that you are becoming an independent individual and nothing is impossible.
Ariana
College is tough and there is alot of work that constantly needs to be done, it is so much different than high school. Do not save your homework until 8 at night, because then you will be up all night long completing it. Try to think of the normal high school school day, you go to class for 730 and you're out by 130 utilize that time inbetween classes to complete the work you wont want to do later. Do not save your homework for the day before it is due, college professors assign SO much reading and you wont be able to complete all 100 pages assigned if you start the day before also, take naps often trust me everyone does it, and they help a lot! You get so tired even if you are sleeping more than you did in high school. This is all very important information to consider, but I think the best advice I can give you is to work hard and be yourself. I know college seems like such a huge and scary place, but I promise you that if you work hard like you always have done you'll succeed.
angela
Wow, going back in time to visit my past self would be quite a trip. I feel like I know exponentially more about myself now than I did, even three years ago. I would tell myself to buckle down, get yourself together, do what needs to be done: focus. Listen to your inner voice, really be true to yourself. If something feels wrong, it probably is. Do only what makes you happy. Everyone has a different path, you live your own life. Be repsonsible, be nice, be smart. Take things one day at a time, go slowly, do not rush anything, listen to your intuition. Be true to yourself.
Nosine
I have learned so many valuable lessons through experience. Some may say that I learned many things the hard way. I believe that learning from experience can be the best way to learn. When I was a high school senior I did not focus on getting exceptional grades in order to go to college. Now I see after having been out of college for almost five years straight that higher grades could have put me in a better position academically. Another thing that could have helped me would be searching for more free money. If I could go back to high school and talk to myself as a senior I would tell myself to get the highest grades possible. I would also tell myself that a college scholarship is the most important thing to strive for. I would tell myself to not work full time and drop down to part time in school. Dropping to part time in college not only put me into debt but it also made it so much harder to complete a degree. I should have had more faith in myself and went for the scholarships that I now know that I deserve.
Jennifer
Jennifer, major in what you enjoy and have a strong passion for. If what you are studying is not what you had in mind then it is not for you. Be sure to explore with a variety of courses, it will broaden your horizons and ultimately make you a better individual. Social engagement is also very important. Go to sports games, lectures, school events. Don't be affraid to speak up, what you have to say is important. Last but not least, have a plan for your future so you can make the most out of your college journey, but also know that you are going to be fine entering the "real world".
Meghan
If i could speak to my high school self, I would tell her not to let her shyness and fear take control. Get involved! Even though you are worried about how you are perceived, these moments are so fleeting that it won't matter if you act like a fool. It is not okay to sit on the sidelines and watch everyone else. When the whole experience is over, are you going to have a t-shirt from your intramural softball team? Or are you going to have a story about why you were scared to go to the tryouts because you may play poorly. Are you going to have friends who are involved in business? Or are you too scared you aren't smart enough to talk to people in those classes? Are you going to look back at your college literary journal and find your essay? Or are you going to remember how you never submitted it because you didn't think it was good enough. Which memories do you want? Push past the fear and learn to embrace the moments, even if they are scary and embarrassing. Those times will always make a better story!
James
Jay,
I know that you are probably not going to listen because you are one to find out by your own experience but, I would like to tell you that you should go ahead and enroll in a 4 year college and go for a degree in Accounting. You have a great asset in organization and perfection in your character, that you probably will not discover until you are 30.
Emily
Hello high school student Emily,
The most important thing, which may sound really hard, but try not to procrastinate! I know the end of the school year and ending and you just want to go to college already but if you get your work done before the last minute you are able to spend time doing something else more important. Learning to lessen procrastination will follow through into college.
Another piece of advice that is going to be helpful is planning a schedule for yourself. Write down all your assignments. This will allow you balance your time and not feel overwhelmed with work. Then most of all, get your work done but don't forget to have some fun too.
Marisa
There is no college like Providence. Due to our Civ program, every single student will obtain the history of the world and therefore become well rounded. Besides academics, though, I truly feel like this is such an ecclectic school because people come from all walks of life. I am a First Generation student, which is quite rare because my parents did not go to college. I know that Providence will help me make a difference in the world due to all the diversity and what it has taught me about other people. Providence has been valueable to attend due to their emphasis on unity.
Kim
Although my college life has just begun, I can already see it's many impacts and influences on my current life as well as my future. Heading into my second semester I feel confident and eager to take on new challenges and exciting adventures. Going into college, I was worried about how I would handle not playing varsity sports anymore. This had always been a major part of my life and I struggled to picture myself mereley watching from the sidelines. Soon enough however, I discovered my school"s Ultimate Frisbee club team. After the first practice, I knew I had just met a great group of people and would have no trouble fitting in. Because of this and the variety of intramural sports, my competitive appetite was content. I also quickly discovered a great deal about myself and who I want to be in the future. I declared myself as a Spanish Secondary Education major with a minor in Italian at the beginning of the year. After the first semester, my love of language and culture increased and I am now determined to become certified as a teacher in Spanish, Italian, and French by the time I graduate.
Kyrra
As a transfer student beginning my second year of college, I'm excited to begin at my new school. I disliked everything about my experience last year, from the impersonal professors/classmates to my inconsiderate roommate. My classes weren't challenging enough, and the student body (who were mostly from the same state) went home every weekend, leaving the campus dead and lonely. I never had an assigned advisor to guide me through my academic queries. My college life last year was basically me sitting in my room every day studying or watching TV. Although I am not fond of my college experience thus far, I'm still grateful for it. It taught me a valuable lesson, that I shouldn't compromise my beliefs, opinions, and ideals. The reason I attended that university was because my parents were concerned with the cost of other institutions, and this negatively influenced me to not apply to my dream schools, which were either privet or out-of-state, meaning they were pricey. However, I know now that sacrificing my dreams means sacrificing my happiness, and since college is supposed to be the time of your life, I won't sacrifice that either.
Jacinda
I've found myself by returning to college after taking time off. I've become very involved and found my niche. I have discovered my strengths, as well as my weaknesses, and have had the opportunity to work on both. College has been valuable because it has led me to my future career, as well as to myself.
Samantha
At Providence College, with learning skills to get a job in the real world, I've always learned about myself. I've learned about the young woman I am being, independent and strong. It has taught me to let go out fear, and realize this is my time to learn about myself and who I am to this world. I have learned to be comfortable in my own shoes, and reach out for what I desire whole-heartedly. I realize this is my time to live to my best ability and strive to get to the best future for myself. College has truly challenged me, but I wake up so thankful for this oppurtunity I am given. The challenges I face here, I believe, is my own weakness leaving my body. I am truly blessed to attend Providence College.
Pat
Listen to your parents. They really do know what they are talking about. They have the life experiences and they care about you and want only the best for you. I know at 17 or 18 you think you know it all and are indestructible but it is your parents who always have your best interests at heart. Their advice is invaluable. Listen to them for they know what they speak of!
Also, get involved! Participate fully. Don't be afraid to be who you want to be.
Kristin
If I could go back in time, there are many things I would do differently as I transitioned to college life. To start with, I would have become involved more freshman year. While this time can be strange and overwhelming, it is the perfect time to try out new things. After freshman year, many friendships have been established and groups have been made. Next, I would also tell myself to stop worrying so much about what others thought. Often I didn't try out for a team or join a club because of a fear of failure. I missed out on some great opportunities because of that fear. In addition, I would have worked harder on my academics my first two semesters. Studying for college exams and writing college essays was very different than my high school work load. I should have taken the extra time to make a study schedule and made plans with people in my classes to get together to review class material. Freshman year can be all about the social aspect. While that can be nice at times, it is important to remember what you are there to do.
Kirsten
If I could go back in time, I would tell myself not to get stressed out about the transition from high school to college. Every freshman on a college campus is going through the same things. Everyone is trying to cope with meeting new people, doing work, leaving home and friends, and finding ways to have fun. People on college campuses are less judgemental than high school, so it is a lot easier to express yourself. There are so many different groups of people on campus that everyone finds people to fit in with, even people who have a hard time being social. But make sure to make good friends, because part of the education of college is the social life.
Ava
Going back in time is an intriguing concept. It makes us wonder about what we would have done differently in situations in the past, and yet the irony is that even if we did have the chance to go back in time, we may not choose to do to right thing even the second time around. If I were to go back and talk to myself as a high school senior I could advise myself to not skip class even if I wanted to, I could tell myself not to wait until the last minute to write a term paper, and I could say that staying up all night studying does not necessarily help you do better on the test. But I wouldn't say those things. Learning those things on your own is what makes you the kind of student you are. So for advice, I would simply say: Be Yourself. College is about figuring out who you are and as long as you don't attempt to be someone you're not, although there may be bumps along the way, I have confidence that you will be able to find your way in the world.
Joshua
If I could go back and time and talk to myself as a high school senior about the transition from high school to college I would tell myself to just by myself. Going to college is a very unique experience. You move away from home for the first time, live with strangers, meet new people, and open yourself up to a whole new world; the real world. During the transition you need to remember and cherish who you are as a person. You cannot pretend to be someone who you are not or say something you do not believe or act in a way which you know is not you. People respect you for who you are, not who you pretend to be. Find a close group of friends that likes you for you and who share some of the same values you do. This will help ease you into the college life and remove the social pressure college places on you which will allow you to focus more on academics, the main reason for attending college in the first place.
Alejandra
Allie, you will make friends. You'll actually have friends that understand you better than people you've grown up with. So don't worry about being lonely, because that feeling passes. It's similiar to when you went away to summer camp and were really nervous to arrive, but after a few weeks you dreaded the thought of leaving. Also, no one really teases people in college, so you don't need to be worried about that either. Well, you're friends do make fun of you, but you're always in on the joke and mostly deserve it. Also, if you don't enjoy the company of the people around you, there are many opportunities to extract yourself from the situation. Just go to the library or take a walk.
No matter what you do, even if you have five papers to write and five exams to take, don't wish that any day would just end already. You need to realize how lucky you are to be in a school that's teaching you how to live, with people that are teaching you how to love.