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If I could go back in time and give myself advice in high school, I would tell myself not to drop out. I would also suggest that I participate more in things like extracurricular activities and/or community service. I would let myself know that although it seems like working is easier than going to school, it is not worth it in the future, to give up my education. Besides, I still ended up going to college. And the grades I get now only reflect the potential I had back then. I can only imagine how well I would have done had I done things in the right order (high school and college first, then marriage and kids). I would tell myself that I could save myself a lot of hardship if I'd have quit being so hard headed and made the most of my opportunities to get an education. I would let myself know how rough it's been trying to support a family of 6 with both parents having no college education. I'd tell myself to finish school, if not for myself, than for my kids. They deserve better, and so do I.

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would change moving to another town to attend my first two semesters of college. I would tell myself this because when you are a freshman and you move to another town it can make things more difficult because you do not know anyone. I would also change this because I would have saved myself about two thousand dollars. Now that I live back at home with my parents my grades have gotten better. I also feel like I am enjoying my time in college a lot more.

I wouldn't change much. I would like to have been more invloved in the college life and made more friends. I would have studied more nad wish I would have know which professors to take and which ones not to. I would have lives with just my sister and brother in law and got a cheaper place. I would have saved more money and not have spent so much. I would have used my time more wisely. Also, don't let other sstress you out and make decisions based on yourself and not others.

Find something that isaffordable but, that is challenging enough for your child.

remember college is a journey and an experience its not suppose to be perfect and if you choose what you want to be in life its ok mom and dad will understand. If you have to drop a class i promise you its not a sin just make sure not to overload yourself next semester (your on probation). Avoid anything that will cause a hangover in the morning especially if you have a test, midterms, finals, or anything involving school officials. If you pass by the seat of your pants congrats, If you try it again you'll fail. Give God thanks for the hail Mary and study next time. Always remember Take a deep breath, Someone loves you and all you can do is smile and think of the positives even when it looks like you don't have a chance or a prayer.

I would say whatever college you choose make sure you get involved!! You meet some of the most amazing people by getting envovled on campus.. You will definalty learn more about yourself by meeting new people.

I am 24 years old and when i graduated high school i knew what i did not whan to do but on the other hand i had no clue what i did want to do. I had a dream of becoming a pilot but at 18 years old i thought it was not realistic. As grew older and attended college i soon realized that a peron can do anything he/she wants to do. I believe a person can accomplish anything as long as that person does not accept NO for an answer. From the first day i began studying Aviation my love for the industry has done nothing but grow. Thank you for taking the time to read the most important life story that i have.

Make certain that you are ready for the college life. I am a non-traditional student and am very grateful for the experiences life had to teach me before I decided on my major and eventual college that fit the needs of my family. It took several years of growing up to realize what I wanted to do with my life. Don't take your grades for granted, they are a reflection of your ability to do well in life, not just " course subjects", study hard and be glad you have the opportunity to learn.

Find out what makes the students most comfortable... how far they are from the parents and so forth... and if the academics is at their liking.

Look for a college that is the correct and size and location for your personality. And find one that offers exactly what you want, don't settle for anything less. Get involved on campus and with the organizations on campus that interest you.

Definately visit the campus first and see if it "feels right". Go on a school day to see what an everyday would look like at the university. Take a look at the DORMS as well.

Go with a college that fits you and not you budget or your parents.

I would say to pick a college where you at least know one person and are friendly with them. Go to class on time, and don't procrastinate. Try to stay away from parting and drinking. It just slows you down. Go as a full time student and try to get everything done asap.

I suggest that everyone should pick three or four different colleges at least and consider how many areas fit in with the applicant's personality, learning style, and preferred living arrangements. I also suggest that the applicant try to familiarize themselves with the campus's security systems, offices, and important phone numbers so that they'll know what to expect and where to go if they they attend it. They should also do their best to get out and meet new people there so that they can develop more of a diversity in their interests and abilities. They should never go anywhere at night by themselves and keep the partying, drinking, and other questionable behaviors to a minimum. They should also be careful of what they post on social websites and change their passwords often to avoid something unpleasant happening. Broadening horizons while maintaining safe behavior is the most important thing I can stress.

When you're looking for a university, don't just consider at price and location. Look for a university that will best suit your personal needs. And when you get there, get involved! As a recipient of SOSU's Top Ten Freshmen award, I know that if you really want to have a great college experience, you have to get out and do something. Don't just go to class and sit in your room. College is what you make it... So why not make it great?

College is what you make it. You will only get what you put in. Nothing is just handed to you, however, it never hurts to ask for help. People know each other here. We build relationships and make connections. We learn and we grow. Then we go on to bigger and better places.

Find a place that is the right size for you! Make sure you love the campus! Also, know what you plan to major in so that you can stay on track for your degree plan!

Trust your gut instinct when you first walk on the campus. Remeber, you will LIVE here for the most influential part of your life. Once you're there, find something to get involved in. Go Greek, join the Choir, involve yourself in Collegiate Ministries, just find yourself something to do other than classes and sleep. If you don't you'll end up physically and emotionally sick! Also, it helps you be held accountable by your peer group. If you have a whole bunch of friends, you're more likely to share a class with one of them. That way, they can bug you when you don't show up to class! It's really positive to have someone say, "Hey, I missed you in Sociology this morning. Let me get you the notes if you promise to never miss again." Finally remember to enjoy the process beginning to end including looking for your college all the way through Graduation! It's the most fun you'll have! Make the best of it!