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Contrary to popular belief, Swatties find time apart from studying to join various clubs, teams, committees, and other groups. I, for example, am a member of the Village Education Project. The group provides education opportunities for young Ecuadorean children by giving them school supplies and sending Swattie volunteers to a partner school to teach them over the summers. Overall, politically oriented and a capella clubs seem to be the highest populated and most represented groups, reflecting Swarthmore’s artistic, eco friendly, and activist inclinations. Specifically, political activists can find a wide range of projects to get involved with from stopping hydraulic fracturing to War News Radio to (economic) Class Activists to Global Health Forum and much more. Even clubs with different interests have an activist purpose: for example, TOPSoccer gives soccer players the opportunity to play with and teach kids in nearby underserved communities. For the more creative types, there are seven a capella groups (not to mention additional choral and musical groups!) with their own styles/ fields of expertise.
Although athletics are not at the forefront of Swat’s reputation, our men’s Garnet soccer team is highly competitive, and their games are also great social, prideful bonding experiences for the students. Each of their matches home and sometimes away is attended by the majority of the student body. In fact, class of 2011 alum Morgan Langley was signed with the MLS Philadelphia Union shortly after his recent graduation from Swat. Swat’s intellectual atmosphere also attracts tons of students to incredible guest lectures; renowned journalist Nicholas Kristof was a recent visitor whose lecture attracted and captivated practically the entire student body!
After the soccer games, the two on-campus fraternities Delta Upsilon (the “baseball frat”) and Phi Psi (the “lacrosse frat”) have been known to throw popular themed late-night parties like 80s Night and Western Wear, and Swat’s Pub Night every Thursday in Paces Cafe starts the weekend off on a great note for many students. Pre-and-after-party shindigs are usually held by each dorm (especially Willets: the party dorm!) Besides making the occasional trip to U Penn, there isn’t much to do off campus for entertainment in the small town of Swarthmore, and people usually only party once to twice a week. As such, it’s possible to get “Swat Goggles” (a close relative of beer goggles) at on-campus events from being such a small school, but the dating scene is pretty intimate in a charming, quaint way. In fact, Swat is often called the Quaker Matchbox because of the high number of Swatties who find themselves married to one another after their time in college.
Luckily, the matchbox also works great for finding friends! I found my three closest buds attending a Swat diversity workshop over the summer. Once we found out our common interests extended beyond diversity awareness when we found ourselves in many of the same classes, we’ve been inseparable since. This sense of togetherness makes students quite trusting of one another: we usually leave our dorm doors open, and strive to spend time with each other apart from drinking and greek life, as those are present but not dominant aspects of student life (there aren’t any sororities!) For instance, I recently spent my night going for a walk around town with friends and meandering down to the local Chinese food restaurant, where we celebrated the end of finals with a large feast. Wildly exciting? No. Extremely amusing and good bonding? Definitely.
Dylon
Some groups on campus: The Phoenix, Swarthmore Asian Organization, Enlace, and the fraternity, DU. None of these are that big--they tend to be sort of like familial groups that you go to during meetings. I'm involved in The Phoenix, the campus newspaper, and I got started in it because I had never written for a newspaper before and thought that it would be cool to try something new and know how it was like, so I joined. Groups here are generally very inclusive.
We often get guest speakers here. One of the most interesting guest speakers I spoke to (I interviewed for The Phoenix) was involved in an organization called Food Not Bombs, which calls for redirecting military expenses toward feeding the hungry, with the idea that providing food for all is more important than war. He was really amazing because he was taught by Howard Zinn and went all over Europe to see Food Not Bombs groups starting up, and it was amazing to see how a small idea that he and his friends had would become a global thing. Other guest lectures I've attended: a professor from MIT talked about the effect of climate change on economics, and Michael Dukakis spoke about the 2008 election.
Parties are usually Thursday nights and Saturday nights. On Sunday most people get to work and do stuff for Monday.
Lots of people here drink, but if you're not into that (I'm not), there are often movies showing every week, dances (in other words, party but just don't drink), and of course there's Philadelphia. I think a lot of people might find this boring, but I think a lot of people are fine with it--I usually watch a movie during the weekend, hang out with friends, do a bit of work (sometimes a lot), and just relax. It's really low-key.
Jonathan F
Sports and frats exist, but they're not important. The social life is what you make of it. You can have whatever you want, but by senior year, you mostly just want to hang out with your friends and drink.
The town sucks, but Philly is cool and if you have one urbane bone in your body, you'll be there at least once a month.
We get good bands coming through.
There are a few big parties every year, the most notable being Sager Genderfuck. It's the least progressive way of looking at sexual freedom, but it's fun nonetheless.
However, if you don't like drinking, there are plenty of other dorks playing board games on a Saturday night.
Dating happens more than hooking up. Mostly because students here think that once you hook up wiht someone, you're in love with them. They're a little slow in that respect. 25{4a082faed443b016e84c6ea63012b481c58f64867aa2dc62fff66e22ad7dff6c} of students end marrying another Swarthmore student.
Political Junkie Junior
Many students participate in sports and clubs on campus. I'm a member of the ultimate frisbee team, which is a very laid pack sport that runs itself (without a coach), whose practices are pretty optional, and who value having a good time and feeling physically satisfied more than achieving any certain results. There are a number of guest speakers who come to campus, and they are always fascinating. The dating scene is fully functional here. I, myself, find many opportunities to ask a cute boy to go on a walk with me around our beautiful campus and get to know them a little better. Philadelphia is a short train ride away, so people sometimes go on adventures into the city.
Kyle
There are two fraternities, Delta Upsilon and Phi Psi. DU is the more closed frat, while Phi Psi is pretty open (a drinking club if you will). Weekends are typically pretty lively, with plenty of dancing. Swarthmore parties aren't like typical college "house parties" where only a select few party together. Swarthmore, being a Quaker college, encourages socializing together, which usually means large open parties for all to attend.
Swarthmore is also a part of the Tri-College Consortium with Haverford and Bryn Mawr...a bus load of Bryn Mawr girls usually unload every weekend.
Ariane
People are very committed to their activities. It's a small campus, so there aren't tons of party options, but I don't think this was a huge thing for most of us. Lots of people drink, lots of people never drink. Many people party for a few hours and then return to their room and study before crashing. Everyone seems to feel very safe and secure among one another, which is probably risky. I personally couldn't understand why so many people would never lock their doors, but that was fairly common. The dating scene was generally complained about, but I met some great guys at Swarthmore and didn't have any complaints there.
Dan
If you want to find a strong frat scene, this is not the place. If you like hanging out with friends over a couple beers, or going to a (relatively tame) dance party, then you should be happy. A good place to find very hard-core sci-fi/fantasy/folk dancing types, although they are a small minority. Swatties tend to over-commit, and have a ridiculous number of extra-curricular activities. Since it's such small place it's easy to get involved in anything. At Swat all you need are two degrees of separation. Some people find that suffocating, as there are fewer people to meet and everyone finds out about your business. Some love the tight-knit community, the experience of entering a party and feeling like everyone there is a friend of yours.
Reese
I have fun. Drinking is pretty open here but very safe because upper classment tend to take care of kids, etc. There are TONS of clubs and organizations and the school is good about helping people start new ones. The frats serve an important role for people who want that, but lots of other people rarely ever go there. Athletic events are increasing in popularity. The dating scene: either hooking up or practically married.
Sara
People are very involved at Swarthmore. People all have their "thing," whether it be sports, activist groups, affinity groups, or performance groups. There are two frats, mostly comprised of athletes, but the members don't live at the frats, they just have parties and are not a huge presence on campus.
Because it is such a small campus, a lot of the parties are in all-campus spaces, not in people's rooms. Therefore, they are fun and not exclusive. In terms of drinking, the school's main priority is keeping people safe, not getting people in trouble. There is also a fairly big group that doesn't drink, and there are things to do that don't involve drinking.
Elena
Many Swatties complain that the social scene is repetitive, and while this might be true, you can definitely make your own fun. Philly is really only a hop-skip-and-a-jump from campus by train, and while the (2) frats or the communal social center may not be your scene on a Saturday night, there are generally parties/festivities/movies/concerts going on to keep people entertained.
Athletics are not really "du jour" at Swat, much to the annoyance of the athletes themselves, and fraternities are definitely not the sordid, debaucherous affairs portrayed in "Animal House."
Chelsea
Social Life
I would rate social life as medium. The parties aren't as great as bigger universities but they suffice for most. Most parties happen at Paces or Olde Club and usually involve music and alcohol. However, if you aren't into that, you can hit up one of the Parrish Parlour Parties for some sober fun. On a Saturday night, there is a wide variety going on. Some are sleeping at 9p.m., some watch movies, and some drink and dance until the wee hours of the morning. It's all about personal preference.
Dale
Swarthmore has a wide variety of events (shows, parties, speakers, movies, etc) and a ton of clubs for everything you could think of. Athletics exist but are not widely attended at all.
There are definitely parties on the weekend (sometimes at our 2 fraternities) but I would say that only some of the student body attends these types of parties.
Pat
small social scene but there is complete and utter freedom on campus
Jerry
There is social life at Swat but not as much as at some other colleges and universities. The parties are mostly of the same type in the same place. They're pretty predictable. Swarthmore does provide some big events that most of the student body comes out to. I met my friends through Rhythm and Motion and Essence of Soul. They are two popular groups on campus. Some people party very often. I try to balance it, although I enjoy being social and having fun. There's not a big greek life at Swat at all. There are only fraternities and I don't really consider them "real" frats. There's quite a bit of drinking on campus. Dry parties are thrown but people still show up drunk sometimes. After a certain time though, there's not much to do except hang out with friends in your room.
Aaron
The social life is is pretty active. There are always tons of activities and fun things planned. The school is very willing to fund student activities as long as they are open to the whole campus, and a lot of unique fun things result. Examples inlcude the famous pterodactyl hunt, or keilbasafest and worthstock.
There are also plenty of parties during the weekends, though there is no pressure to go to them.
John
Parties can be found thurs-sunday. If there is not an official party you can hit up a frat. Alcohol can be found any where, yet many people are fine without drinking and fun is easily accessible for them too.
Claire
Prior to 2006, we only had two fraternities on campus. Sororities were banned in the 1930's and since then, there have been multiple failed attempts to re-establish them. In 2006, one of my friends and I started a group called the Ladies Soiree Society (LaSS) and it has since been dubbed a "quasi-sorority". We're all-inclusive and currently the largest womens group on campus. Although many of our members are close friends with the fraternity brothers, our goal in creating LaSS was to equalize the social scene on campus (why should we have to depend on men to have a night out?). Although the campus was hesitant to accept us at first, we've gained a lot of support and popularity due to some of our events. The most successful is by far our Mr. Swarthmore Competition, a male beauty pageant in which male representatives from various groups and activities on campus compete in formal wear, tropical wear, talent, and a Q&A section.
Ryan
While frisbee isn't the most popular group on campus, it's still a lot of fun. We can come to practice when we have time, hang out with friends, get exercise, and practice. If a door's open, it's probably a freshman door, because we're all dying to meet new people. Upperclassmen normally have their friends and tend to not be around the dorm as much it seems. If we're up at 2am on a tuesday, we're either doing homework or talking in the lounge after doing work. But it's mostly the work.
Andy
There are a lot of groups and organizations on campus, whether they're varsity sports, club sports, volunteer or activist groups, radio groups, identity focused groups, etc, and they're a great way to meet people. Students tend to be friendly and trusting, leaving items around and leaving doors open. Theater, dance and music performances are highly attended...sports, not so much. The dating scene is absolutely horrendous- people, for the most part, are either hooking up or 'married.' I met my closest friends because we lived in the same dorm my freshman year. Speaking of dorms, the fact that there are no 'freshman' dorms on campus was extremely helpful to me: I got to actually meet upperclassmen, some of whom I became very close to. If I'm awake at 2 am on a tuesday, I'm leaving the library. There are a lot of fun traditions at swarthmore every year: the pterodactyl hunt (I'll leave that to you to research), Screw Your Roommate (set roommate up on a blind date, with a twist: the 'paired' roommates are wearing a set of costumes and have to find each other. for example, my freshman year, I went as Miss Piggy and my date was dressed as Kermit the Frog), the Willets carnival (carnival activities outside Willets dorm), Worthstock (an all day music fest), Kielbasafest, the block party, the Crum Regatta, the Sager Symposium and Genderfuck party, etc. These events really do bring the campus together. The fraternities are friendly places that aren't really like real frats. The brothers are pretty welcoming and never turn anyone away. They just dole out lots of free beer, and hold a few big parties each semester. Not a lot of people go there except to the big parties. There are no sororities. People usually party on Thursdays and Saturdays. Thursday is the best night of the week: Pub Nite. A senior class fundraiser, Pub Nite is a weekly event held in the Paces student-run cafe/party space where the senior officers buy 5 or 6 kegs, and for $4 you can drink unlimited beer from 9-12. People play games, listen to good music (the music is very important and regular pubniters vie for the chance to make the pubnite playlist each week), and eventually as the drunkenness ensues, dance. Off campus, people tend to go into Philadelphia for dinner, or Media for a little bit of closer fun. but the train tickets can be pricey.
Toby
The cultural groups have a tremendous role in organizing social events on campus, from speakers to parties. Some students leave their doors open, but not all. A substantial portion of students are in relationships, but many more engage in a hook-up culture here. The party scene is great for first year students, but can get boring quickly for other students.