Thomas More College Top Questions

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Work harder in high school

First of all, I would tell myself to stay in school. When I was in the 9th grade, I had to move from a "not so good part of town" to a rural area with a suburban high school. I quit school because of the way I was treated and that wasn't the right decision. I tried to stay in school, but the teachers were even bad to me. The people that I was supposed to look up to for guidance, failed me, and it was because of the area that I came from. I did go back and get my GED but I missed out on my graduation. I would definitely tell myself to stay in school no matter what comes and to endure the harship because in the end, it will be worth it. I would set myself down and say, "hey, when you graduate college and feel successful, you can help someone just like you, who is struggling through their young life." It's not worth giving up on your dream. Now that I am older, I realize that some of the choices I made, were wrong. It's never to late to correct a wrong.

I would tell myself to use all the resouces available to me to enable me to take care of my family. That a high school education will not get you far in the future. That all roads (jobs) lead to a dead end without a college degree.

I would first tell myself that the road ahead is not an easy one. I should know and understand that I will soon be faced with questions and my decisions to these will effect the rest of my life. The school work takes alot of time and dedication but it can be done. I would have told myself to only keep those friends who I know will be there no matter what and to begin to seperate from the ones who would bring me down. I would have liked to know that somehow things work out no matter how dark or horrible they may seem. With work and a good attitude I can get through almost anything (so far). The tough situations will make me stronger and leaning on those who support me is ok. Asking for help is not a bad thing. I would tell myself to try not to worry about tomorrow, because it will have enough troubles... just make it through each day and give it all you have!

If I were to go back in time and speak to myself as a high school senior about the transition to college I would give my self quit a few pointers on saving money and class schedualing. First of all I would tell myself to take as many dual credit courses as possible while in high school. I would make sure I apllied for as many scholarships as possible and work hard on my grades and extrachriculars. I would deffantely tell myself to go to a two year junior college first to get all of my general ed classes out of the way so that it would save money. As well as benifiting by smaller class sizes. I would tell myself not to pick a major my first year into college and to take as many general course as I could until I found a subject that really caught my interest. I would also tell myself to make as many friends as possible to help network for the future. Furthermore, I would say take as many credit hours as I could handle per semester to keep myself ahead t

I would advise myself to work harder an put a little more effort and instead of taking the construction program at the pruden center, I would tell myself to take the automotive program because I have a passion for cars and I enjoy working on them, repairing any bad parts, restoring a classic car and just all around being underneith the hood working on the engine. I would help myself get a better start right after graduation in the field that I have a passion in.

I guess I would remind myself about the importance of time management and to be open to all possibilities. But honestly I don't think I would change any of the choices I have made in college because those choices made me who I am today. It would have been nice if I had started out in the college I now attend or started out in the major I am now but that would take away so many experiences that have shaped me into the person I am today. I guess if I had the chance to talk to myself as a high school senior I would turn it down. I am happy with who I am at this moment and the experiences I have gathered on the way.

If I could go back in time I would tell myself two important things to do to be prepared for college. First, I would tell myself to develop a better study habit. I would tell myself if you think high school studying is rough, college is even rougher. I would also tell myself to work on better social skills. College is a whole new life for a high school graduate and to get by you need good social skills so you can develop new relationships and better contacts. Those are things I would tell myself.

I'd just tell myself to be who I am. Not to worry about what others think. I worry about that alot, and I used to more, but at College you get to start over. All the embarrassing things that happened in high school don't matter anymore, because no one will know you at College. So just go at it head first, with a smile on your face and your chin held high. Show people who you are, and you'll make your way into the community a lot easier than you think. But--even if you don't, you'll still be just fine at Thomas More College.

I would tell students and parents to spend a day at the prospective college. Talk to the students just as much as the faculty, these students will most likely take classes with you. See what goes on beyond the classroom because college is not all about grades and GPAs its about a lot more. You develop lifelong friendships and relationships. Look for clubs and organizations you might want to join because these become the people you see the most. I am in a sorority and so happy I am, most of my friends and aquaintances know this is part of my life will stick with me for my life.

I would look around before deciding on a place you always wanted to go. Make sure that the field of study you are interested in is very good at the school you plan to attend. Parents need to let their kids spread their wings a little even if they are stil living at home.

The best advice I could give would be to make sure you feel comfortable in the environment the school is located. Look at the people around you and see if you could picture yourself being one of them. Fitting in with the students that go there is important. You cannot choose a school based on where your friends from high school are going, which one has the best sports teams, or even status or reputation. Unfortunately, I found this out the hard way. I went to Miami University my freshman year because I had a scholarship to play soccer there. Playing at a division I school had always been my dream, and I thought other people would be impressed by me playing there. I ended up not being happy there and transferring to Thomas More. I didn't fit in at Miami and the money that I was recieving from there wasn't worth sacrificing my happiness. I am currently playing soccer at Thomas More and even though I'm paying more money to go there, I'm so much happier. I have made so many friendships I know will last forever, and I know I found where I belong.

Make sure you get a good tour not just the basic one. Also try to meet teachedrs you may have associated with your major and check ratemyprofessor.com. Try really hard to get involved at least your first year so you can meet people.

small college are better because the students can get more help. ask what the studnet can do if they are having problems in one of their classes. make sure they visit the department they are intrested in before they commet.

Always know that small college can always be helpful to the students and parents becasue it is easy on the student to make friends and its sure that the student will be safe becasue sefty is always better when their are less students. Always ask about tutouring and how the student can get help if they need it. Ask to meet with some of the teachers that will be teaching them so that the student is sure he likes the teachers before he comes to the school.