Whitney
Reflecting on my college experience, I can honestly say I could not have asked for a better four years than the ones I lived at Delaware. With hindsight however, there are some things I wish I did differently. In seeing my friends' younger siblings starting the process of applying to schools I want so much to give them words of wisdom- advice and encouragment I wish someone had given me. In the broadest and simplest sense, the best advice I can give is to not hold back. If you are confident and happy with who you are, you are sure to attract numerous, worthwhile people, those that may be your friends for perhaps the rest of your life. Additionally, get involved! When first entering school, it can be an information overload with all the clubs and activities that are offered. Frustrating as it may be, find what you like, ask questions, and be active. I learned the hard way that school is not just class and books, but it's the relationships you make with others, and more importantly, what you make of yourself. In the end, how you have defined yourself as a person is what makes a difference.
Tikeyla
Find the college that fits into your life at the moment bu t because things can change find one that will work with the student and their needs.Find the college that fits your budget and the one that best supports your goals later in life
Julian
The best advice I can give to someone is to find the school with the right size. A big school can be overwhelming to some people, and it may make them feel out of place. A small school will allow for smaller class sizes and a relationship with teachers.
Susan
As a high school student, college seems like such a far-off dream. But leaving decisions for the last minute is the worst thing you can do. As a junior, all I thought about was senior year and how much fun I would have, and college hardly ever entered my mind. Looking back, I can tell you that the earlier you begin to look and to prepare to go away to school, the better the outcome. I am very pleased with the college I chose, but had I begun earlier, I may have received more finaincial aid and found out more things about the campus on which I live. So although you know you won't be leaving home tomorrow or even next month, start looking now, at least browsing catalogs or searching online. It will only help you in the longrun.
Ryan
Learn to balance social and academic life.
Kristin
The advice that I would give parents and/or students about finding the right college and making the most out of the college experience is to start looking early. From my experience, I started looking at colleges when I was a Sophomore in High school. Doing research on schools, and starting to think about what you might want to study when you go to college is really helpful. Start looking at what schools have the majors you may be interested in and see when the open house dates are to plan trips to visit the colleges. If your undecided, its not a problem, many students do not know what they want to do. Make sure the colleges you are looking at have majors you may be interested in. I would also advise that students look at a wide range of schools from small, medium, and large to get an idea of how big of a school they would like to go to.
Kristen
"College is the best four years of your life". As clich? as the saying may be, I truly believe college is an experience that everyone should make the most of. For some students this makes finding the ?perfect? school a daunting task. So how does one go about finding an institution that will provide them with a great education and a great social life? Research (through books and online) majors available, average GPA, and statistical information about the student population at every school you are interested in. Visit and make overnight stays at as most schools as possible. Talk to alumni and current students at every college you are interested in. It is important to get a feel for what each school is about, to help decide where you'll fit in best. You should have a feeling that you will 'belong' in whatever school it is you choose to attend. Therefore, when you begin life at your 'home away from home', study hard but always remember to play just as hard. Getting a good education while enjoying every moment of it is what I can say made my college years some of the best days of my life.
tanner
It's all about the feel of the school. Sure, some schools may be better at certain things than others, but unless you feel that you belong there the moment you step onto campus, then you're at the wrong school. The grades and achievments really only matter and mean the most when you truly feel that you our at YOUR school.
Andrew
Parents should sit down and listen to their child about career choices. The biggest help was my mother. I told her I wanted to pursue a career in Hotel, Restaurant Management and perhaps own my own restaurant. She helped me weigh the pros and cons of this field.
Parents and their student should look at the cost of tuition, books, meal plans, and housing. If the school you want to attend isn't within your financial reach look for a school that is. College life can be stressful enough without worrying how you are going to pay for everything.
If available, students need to visit the campus with their peers and then again with their parents. Parents are accustom to controlling and making most decisions for their child. Parents need to take a step back and let their child ultimately make their own decisions. Students need to embrace their new found freedom with discretion and good judgement. Students should also keep in mind that parents are parents for a reason; they do, on occasion, have great advice, knowledge and experience.
Kelsey
I would tell parents to have a hands off approach when it comes time for their child to choose a college. I feel the best thing my parents did for me was to let me make all the decisions on my own. That way they knew that I was interested in and passionte about the schools I had choosen. I would also tell parents not to focus on or get too attached to one school. This could potentially lead to dissapointment if their child was not accepted. Applying to college can be very stressful and the last thing a student needs is the weighted pressure of their parents dreams that they go to one particular school. I saw many high school seniors who were crushed and completely depressed if they got rejected from their favorite school. Choosing and accepting to a University should be fun and often times outside pressures especially from parents or loved ones makes the process more stressful. In order to make the most of the college experiance it is important to surround yourself with positive activities, relationships, and courses that stimulate you and keep you engaged in your school.
Caitlin
Keep your options open and don't settle until you find the perfect match. Then, don't give it up for anything.
Christopher
Finding the 'right college' is imperative to ones success at a higher institution of learning. You cannot just pick a university based on name or popularity; it has to fit you, the student (and no one else). I knew that Entomology was what I was passionate about, and that I needed to be able to pursue a career in that field, so that was the primary way that I found out about the University of Delaware. Having the opportunities to conduct research and study abroad were also important to me. But it's also about feeling comfortable at the school you want to attend, and having the opportunity to pursue your interests while also being exposed to a variety of things that you might not be interested in or know about. College cannot solely be about the things that you're interested in, because that's not how it is in the real world. I chose the University of Delaware because I felt that it would expose me to new ideas, new interests, and new people, and this added a whole new dimension to my learning experience. Feel comfortable, but also be open to stepping outside of your comfort zone.
Eric
Get involved. Be proactive. Opportunties rarely float to you.
Nicholas
Of all the variables that could affect college choice, I feel that environment is absolutely the most important aspect to consider. The environment of the school could include such variables as: closeness to home, type of campus, type of people, accessibility of services, etc. What is most important is that the student is comfortable with where they choose to go. Not only will a high comfort level increase the ease of the transition from home to college, but it will make getting work done easy as well. I noticed early in my career that I do my best work when I am content with everything else going on in my life. When I can complete my work easily I am able to learn more efficiently. Other than the incredible workload, the absolute hardest part of school for me was adjusting to a completely new way of living. What eased this transition was the fact that I felt comfortable at the school after only a few days. Overall, no matter how good the school is, it is more important to find the school that caters to the specific needs of the student in order to make learning as easy as possible.
Alex
Go with your gut. Go where it "feels right" for you. And get involved on campus. Remember, its hard to make a small school big, but its easy to make a big school small if you get involved.
Dara
When looking for a college, student has to seach for the school that feels right to them. It has to be a school that offers the programs they need to achieve their goals and at the same time gives them an opportunity to try new things. The student must feel comfortable with the atmosphere and feel as though they can prosper in the environment.
Gregory
Choose a college where you feel at home and where you think you will get the best edcuation for your money. Get involved with as many activities as possible and surround yourself with a good group of people to make the most of your college experience. Also, while you must work hard, do not forget to take time off for yourself to have fun.
Kellie
I think the choice should be up to the students. Make sure that you are happy with the college you choose and you feel comfortable there. It's important to live in a comfortable atmosphere so you are content with where you are at and can see yourself making a future at that college or university. Trying new things and getting involved are key ingredents to making the most of the college experience. Whether it be trying new foods, joining a club, sorority, or fraternity, do something different and that way you can meet new people and you'll have fun along the way!
Laura
When looking for the right college, make a list of pros and cons of the school you are visiting after your visit. That way the school is fresh in your mind and when you look at all of your lists when making your final decision you will have a better idea of how to compare the universitites. Also, if you are unsure about a school plan an overnight visit with a student, contact a professor, get to know the school as best as you can before you make your final decision to make sure this is the best fit for you.
Once you are accepted to your school and have made your final decision, to make the most of your experience, pick a major that you are passionate about. Don't let others pressure you to do one major because they think it will be good for you. College is a time in your life where you're allowed to be selfish. Make the most of your time and get to know as many people as possibles. Make connections, and take your classes seriously while also having fun, and you will leave with four years of great memories!
Fallon
Never stop looking. When you think you've explored every possiblity, think again. Also, no matter what, don't take "no" for an answer. Pick and pick and pick until they reply to your email, return your call, or agree to meet with you. Don't be afraid to be annoying. "The squeaky wheel gets the grease" has never been a more appropriate phrase. Finally, have fun. Don't let the academics consume you, try new things, meet new friends, college is an adventure, make the most of it.