Allyson
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, the first thing that I would tell myself would be to relax. The college application process proves to be very stressful, but in the end everything will work out for the best. Stressing about whether the colleges I have already applied to will accept me or not is not going to affect the final decision and causes me to lose focus on what is really important to me at the time. Next, I would tell myself to take a physics course in high school, because although I still managed to learn the material presented in my college courses, many of my professors assumed that everyone in the class already had knowledge of physics which was disadvantageous for me. Last, I would tell myself that no matter where I end up, my college experience will only be as good or as bad as I make it. The most important thing that I can do is to go into my college experience with a positive attitude and an openness to new experiences. Academics are extremely important in college, but learning doesn?t end in the classroom.
Ruth
The major advice I would give myself would be to never stop meeting new people and making new friends. There are so many amazing people out there, and most people get comfortable with their small groups of friends that they make during their freshman, especially during first semester freshman year. Do not hesitate in going up to someone new and introducing yourself and starting up a conversation. You never know who might become a great new friend and allow you to see the world in a whole new way, who is different from anyone you have ever met. There are so many intelligent, passionate people out there, many with different backgrounds and ideals than your own. People here are incredibly accepting, so do not worry about being singled out or judged; just be yourself and let youself be out there. If you do not, you will not be able to meet all of those amazing people and have the best time of your life.
Lulu
To my younger self,
Before you start college and go far away from everything you've ever known, take time to really appreciate your past - your friends, family, experiences. Now get ready, college is going to blow your mind, in a good way. You're going to meet new people with different personalities, opinions, religions, cultures. Be open to it all. No matter how hard you might want to fight it, give everything new a chance. Overload yourself with activities the first few weeks so you can find your own niche in your new home. You can change your mind later. Transitioning is going to be an emotionally draining experience, but with a satisfying end, I promise. Don't forget who you are, but don't shut who you might be out. Everyone is going through the same thing, so find some friends and get through it together. Mingle! Even if it's against your nature! Surround yourself with all kinds of people, and hopefully you will find those that will be there for you forever. Most importantly, respect yourself and the people around you and I know that you'll excel.
Good luck in your journey of self-discovery.
Michael
Working hard is just a matter of sitting down at your desk every day and working hard. It is not that difficult of a skill - your room will be so small that half the time you spend in it will be sitting at your desk anyway. Instead, learn how to manage your time so that you don't need to sit for 4 hours on a Sunday night to do a week's worth of work. Truly working hard is working well, which entails efficient and spread out studying. Don't be afraid that a half hour of work here and there every day will cut into your social schedule - it won't. You'll have more free time in college than ever. In addition, make sure to add a half hour to an hour of exercise every day. That won't cut into your work or your free time either, and you can incorporate it as part of your social schedule. Exercise is important to your physical and mental health. Eat healthy and not too much, and not all the time. Drink a lot of water during the day, and go to sleep early. You'll be fine.
Hannah
I would tell a high school senior that you definitely have to be a hard worker to do well here, but there is still things to do around St. Louis and lots of good places to eat. But don't let your social life get the best of you or you won't do well. It's also easy to overcommit yourself too early because there is a lot of different activities to get involved in.
Elizabeth
As you make a decision about college, I would like you to ignore all of your initial criteria for the ?right school.? First, the fact that you love your small school now does not mean that you need to attend a school of 2,000 students or fewer. You will always be able to find a small, comfortable community within the school. Second, you have lived in a small town all your life, and while you would certainly love to go to school in the country, give the city a chance! There are so many great schools that are in or near cities but have fantastic campuses that will make you feel like you are in a small town. Finally, I know that you have always planned on staying close to home and that you might get a little homesick if you move too far away. But when else in your life will you have the chance to move to a new part of the country and still live in a fun, supportive environment? If you disregard your initial ideas about what college ?should? be, you will see that Washington University in St. Louis is the right school for you!
Lydeah
Dearest Self,
I know you are anxious to start college, to prove yourself, to make sure that you have made the right choice in leaving, but let me assure you that you have made that correct choice and that you will prove yourself there. Please remember to enjoy right now though because someday you will realize just how blessed you were to come home every day to such an accepting and loving family.
Stay true to yourself, Lydeah, explore your options more, and do not be afraid to grow and develop yourself. Do not dwell on the past, you are who you are and you cannot change that, so embrace it more readily, regardless of other people's opinions! All in all, remember where you came from, and that every step you carry your family with you. Be true to yourself, love others, and know that the world is hard enough on you, so give yourself a break....and above all flesh out your passions, have fun, and create memories!
Love always,forever, and truly,
Lydeah
Michael
The word healthy can be defined in many ways. Healthy may mean working out 45 minutes every day, never staying up later than midnight, eating from the vegetarian food line or sleeping in every day until eleven o?clock. It is different for every student.
I found it challenging to discover what this meant for me. I realized it was not possible to follow my high school routine in college, as I had to deal with the sleeping schedules of two roommates, survive the grind of midterms and motivate myself to walk to the athletic complex. However, once I found my healthy lifestyle things changed. I was happier, more successful in class and had even more free time.
This is why finding and maintaining a healthy lifestyle is important. Not only does it do exactly what the word personifies, keep you healthy, it allows you to accomplish many things you didn?t think you had the time, effort or desire to achieve. Whether your goal is receiving a 3.95 G.P.A., becoming captain of the basketball team or becoming President of student government, it can be fulfilled if you make sure to maintain one thing: a healthy lifestyle.
Alina
I was addicted to Barnes and Nobles in high school. I could work, coming home accomplished after flying away from the tempting voices of my facebook page. When I came to college I knew that I would need to find this perfect study environment on my campus, and eventually I succeeded in chosing Olin Library as my new, collegiate "B and N." I would read just as I had done back home at my bookstore, but after a few weeks of this routine I realized I felt lonely, something I never had experienced in high school. I now know why, and because of it, I know what advice to give my 17-year-old self. Stop thinking that academics are the most important aspect of school. They're not. All I saw during my hours at B and N was the homework completed. I forgot about friends from school who would come to have lunch with me. Coming into college I was so focused on what I saw as what got me in there, my GPA. I forgot that my personality wrote my essay, and much of my character comes from how people in my life push and inspire me.
Ethan
Don't stress yourself out! Finding and deciding on the right college is an important choice to make, but whatever choice you make, it will work out in the end. You may think that one college is THE place to go, and attending any other school would simply be sloppy seconds. But even if your college plans don't work out as you thought, don't worry! No matter where you end up, you will find that college life on the whole is an overwhelmingly enjoyable experience, and you will learn new things and find such diverse opportunities that you can't anticipate. So, though you may have done all the research and you may think you know which college will offer the best education, or offer the best opportunities for your future career, or blah, blah, blah...College is more than just a ticket to a career! While education is important, college is an overall experience, and it is best to find a college where you feel comfortable. So do the research, VISIT THE SCHOOLS, and choose your favorites. But, if it doesn't work out exactly as you thought, don't get upset. It will still be awesome!