Kelda
I originally attended University of Washington and immediately regretted my decision and decided to transfer to Baylor University. I would advise myself to trust my gut, and not be worried about going somewhere far from home. That being said I would tell myself that where you decide to go when you are seventeen or eighteen years old is NOT the end all, be all. There is always the option to transfer if you are not happy so do not put so much pressure on yourself to find the perfect school. There are so many unique and wonderful people at every school that you will find your niche and your people no matter where you go. Feel comfortable with who you are and stick to what you believe because you will find people who support you. Put yourself out there and network with people because most people are nervous and want someone to reach out to them.
Miranda
Don't worry so much about boys and getting married. Just because that's what mom and dad did, doesn't mean it's right for you. By the way, you met your future husband in second grade, so really just don't worry about it! You can fail. College is harder than High School, just because you graduated covaledictorian, it doesn't protect you from future academic failure. Study, study, study!! Texas is fun, but it's not the land of cowboys like you thought it would be. It's an adventure, but for entirely different reasons than what you're expecting. There is a reason why everyone thinks you're nuts for leaving CO to come here, and that reason is MOUNTAINS. Mom is right about a lot of things. Also, call home more than once a month. Just because you call home doesn't make you any less independent. You might not be homesick now, but come your upperclassmen years it'll get you. Take all of your plans that you have now and just throw those away! Basically nothing turns out the way you think it will. Trust God, he's got your back, seriously, TRUST.
Kat
I would tell myself that college is very different from high school. All the petty high school drama and antics are no longer present in college. My first semester of college seems very scattered when I look back on it now. I was everywhere from studying to hanging out then back to studying. With all the new shiney things college has to offer I would get destracted and bounce from one thing to another. I rushed things in other to make everything work, which now I realize didn't work because I basically gave half of my efforts to everything. Looking back on my first semester I would tell myself to take a deep breath and focus on one thing at a time, giving it my 100{4a082faed443b016e84c6ea63012b481c58f64867aa2dc62fff66e22ad7dff6c}. I learned that when you do everything half way you end up with a bunch of halfs, and a bunch of half's that don't match leaves you torn and confused. I cannot change my first semester so to my future self I remind you to take a deep breath and look at whats in front of you and just do that.
Ricky
If I could go back in time a year from now, I'd do more to develop consistent study habits. Coming to college wasn't a big change but it was definitely a change. College professors don't remind you when things are supposed to be turned in. They expect you to look at your syllabus. They don't wait on you to finish your notes before they erase the board and they definitely don't accept late work. Besides the professor’s aspect of it all, studying for classes is a whole different monster. Distractions are quite relevant and annoying as well. I had study tactics before but I would've benefited from learning earlier along the road.
Shani
If I had the chance to go back in time and warn my younger self of what they would encounter in college, I would begin by saying that college is not what media make it out to be. Yes, college is a place where many people of different races, religions, and of different values can interact and learn from each other, but it is also where you learn of the true colors of the world aorund you. At home, you are somewhat sheltered. I college, the world is for the taking and roadblocks will be in even more abundance than before. So, I would tell my younger self to have courage and never give up!
Taylor
What I've learned about myself in the past two years is invaluable. College isn't a walk in the park. You won't pass every class. You won't like every lecture. You might not meet the man or woman you will marry at orientation. You will, however, learn the meaning of hard work and what it means to truly earn something. It's okay to miss Mom and Dad and to cry every once in a while. Drinking every night does not equal straight A's, despite how they portray college in the movies. You will find yourself emmersed in textbooks, eating awful cafeteria food, and struggling with your weight gain. Despite this, when it's all over, when you have your degree in hand, you will realize that it was all worth it and that your future is so much brighter because of your ordeal.
Ingrid
The 4 years of college are a very important phase in your life. The academic aspect is important but I would say that the social environment is even more important. My advice is to pick a school that has a great academic reputation and also a great sports tradition. College sports are big and schools with successfull football or basketball programs have a great following of students, alumni, and other fans. This creates a lot of school pride that becomes pervasive in everything associated with the school. College is a place where you will make friends for life and you will continue to root for your alma mater, no matter what happens to their teams. So you can spend the time researching the academic ranking of the business school (for example), and calculate the cost of attending and compare that against the chance of getting some financial aid. In the end, however, you also need to determine the social networking value of the schools, which in my opinion is very important. Most people find jobs after college, not based on their GPA but based on the networking opportunities and interpersonal skills that are resulting from their college experience.
Taylor
To My Dear High School Self,
Relax. Right now, college looks rather frightening, between having to move out of your house, beginning a long distance relationship, and anticipating the rigourous course work that will soon be your fate. I have to tell you something about all of that though, you will get used to it quicker than you can imagine and it isn't a scary journey once it happens. And, no, you will not be sitting on your floor in your dorm room rocking in the fetal position with the lights turned off all year. Your soon-to-be best friends live right down the hall and you know what else? You go to an amazing high school that has prepared you for the work you will encounter in college and I promise you that those first few classes will feel like nothing compared to what you went through during these years of high school. So again I say, relax. Take a deep breath and enjoy what little you have left of high school because adventure, friendship and growth, AKA, Baylor, is just around the corner.
Sic 'Em Bears,
An Older and Wiser You
Danielle
Danielle,
All of those late nights you spend doing homework for Advanced Placement classes will be worth it. Pay closer attention in Spanish, though. You will become fluent, but you could have also become conversational in French. Also, start reading the newspaper; it will pay off eventually. Listen to your mom and take piano. She is right - you will wish you would have stayed in it. Actually, listen to your mom about everything. She is always right.
On a personal note, remain strong in your beliefs. What seems to be socially important to you now will be laughably insignificant in your future. Your friends will not invite you to events because you do not drink, and your boyfriend will go with someone else to prom because you are still a virgin. You will cry. But you will eventually realize that these will be the best things that will ever happen to you. Because of these experiences you will have humility, awareness of others, and a gentle, beautiful spirit that will touch those around you. You will, also, avoid the addictions, pregnancies, and STDs many of your former friends fell victim to.
PS - your college experience will be amazing! Be patient!
Kendra
Dear Senior Kendra,
I have three clear and important pieces advice for you to excel throughout your senior year.
1. Apply for scholarships until you are blue in the face. Use your writing bone to sculpt the perfect pieces. Just be your charming self.
2. Choose dual credit classes over AP courses. AP courses may boost your GPA, but the class is pointless if you're unable to pass the AP test at the end of the year. Save time and get guaranteed credits.
3. Think about where you aspire to go to college ahead of time: it will save you time, money, and energy.
Have fun! I know I did.
Signed,
Sophomore College Kendra
Meg
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself to go to a community college in the transition from high school to college. It is a really rough transition, especially from where I went to high school, and things are just a thousand times harder now that I am in college. I do love Baylor, but I wish I would have been more prepared coming in at the beginning of last year. I also wish that everything didn't go so rough for me, so I would make sure that I would either pick another school, or I would make sure that I have someone to help me with all of my studying (an instructor, etc.) I would also tell myself that living at home and just going to community college at first is the way to go, so this way I can transition to being without my parents all of the time and having them cook for me and my mom always cleaning up after everyone. There are a lot of things I would go back in time and change, but here are just a few of them.
Katie
I would tell myself to go to my prospective campus with my schedule and walk around the campus and get to know where all of my classes were rather than waiting on the day of my first class and being completely lost and disoriented. I would also tell myself to take all the advice that your parents give you to heart and to always remember what they have told you about going to college because more than likely they have already been there and they know exactly what to expect. I wish now that I had listened to the advice my mom gave me about finding my classes before the first day of class.
Eryn Taylor
I would listen to my Mom's wise advice! I had several scholarship opportunities and had to audition for the School of Music at schools my Mom wasn't too familiar with. However, she drove me to three different Univiserties to audition as a trumpet player. I got offers from all three, however, she begged me to audition at Baylor, before I made a decision. She would then let me make my own decision without any more input from her!!! Once we arrived at Baylor and I auditioned for the Music Professor, I LOVED it!! Because it was late in the decision process (April), we were on pins and needles waiting for their response if I would be accepted and awarded a scholarship! SURPRISE!!! I was accepted and also got a partial Music Scholarship for the 4 years.
We were elated and I'll never again doubt the wisdom of my MOM!!!!!!
Katie
I would definitely be more prepared as far as having enough money for books and supplies so that I wouldn't have to constantly ask my mom for money. I would also be prepared to live with other people in a community rather than living with my mom which is what I have always done and I had a difficult time adjusting to other people coming and going.
Brittany
I would tell myself to be more outgoing. To be intentional with people I desire to be friends with instead of assuming that they know how I am feeling. Show people that I love hanging around them and appreciate their friendship. Get good study habits and know how I can study well. Volunteer more at hospitals and in the community. Show people that I care about them and more importantly Jesus does. Be gracious, nobody is perfect including me. God has so many great plans for me so continue to trust Him and don't fret over little problems. It is all going to work out and I am going to have fun so don't worry about friends, I will have them and they will see me for who I am. Don't get so attached to people freshman year. Put God first and He will put the right people around me to bless, teach, help, and encourage.
Brittany
Learn how to study before getting to college and start to manage your time better.
Breck
College can be the most incredibly transformative time in your life, but you have to be ready and willing to change. As Mark Twain once said, "Don't let schooling interfere with your education." College is more than just a big campus with a bunch of buildings and classrooms. It will be the place where you can not only discover your passion and future career but also mature mentally and emotionally, all while developing incredibly strong and long-lasting relationships with professors and friends. Purposefully seek out opportunities that are outside of your comfort zone. Make mistakes. Don't forsake all else to maintain that precious 4.0. Don't let the fear that accompanies uncertainty after college prevent you from exploring. Odds are that few, if any, people at your school will have known you before you step on campus, so use that to your advantage! You can just be yourself and define along the way what that truly looks like. Most importantly, embrace the change ahead becuase you're in for the time of your life over the next four years.
charles
be more prepared!!!
Brooklyn
If I was to go back and talk to myself I would have told myself to be more efficient in my work, study more, take more notes, and not to procrastinate so much. What I have learned in this semester at school is that I need to be more efficent with my work and to feel confident after I complete my homework, a project or a paper instead of completing it just to complete it and turn it in. I have noticed here that when you turn something in to a professor you have to be 100{4a082faed443b016e84c6ea63012b481c58f64867aa2dc62fff66e22ad7dff6c} confident that you know what you are doing and that you know that you are right. This also applies in the classroom with note taking, write down every thing even if it doesn't seem important because your professor might just use it on a test without you knowing. Finally, procrastination is a big one because it encourges you to be lazy when you need to be on top of your work and studying to make that final GPA you want.