Carol
Go where your heart tells you you should. Don't go somewhere because it will "look" the best on your resume. Don't go somewhere because others think you should. Go where you want to, because you want to. And once you get there, continue to do things for yourself. Be open to new things, but don't be stupid. Don't let your education get in the way of your learning.
Marina
I would check the majors, the cmapus and campus life, financial aid availablity, size, and distance from home.
Rochelle
Find a school that offers what you're looking for, then GET INVOLVED. Join a club, try out for a sport, etc. Find a school that's going to offer you more than just classes.
Carla
The most important thing about finding the right college is knowing what it is that works best for you. Finding a place that is comfortable for you, a place you could see yourself for the next four years. For me, it was a small school with personal interaction with professors and a close community feeling. The campus and the people became home for me and I have been back many times since graduating to visit professors, staff, and current students. Money is always a huge factor when selecting a school, and the thing is, everyone leaves college with loans. There are ways to make it managable, but dont let that be a deciding factor. Make a list of what is important to you and go out and find it. Stay overnight (if possible) and get a feel for it. Sit in on classes. But dont let money be the reason you dont go to the school of your dreams.
Ryan
The college that's right for you will most likely not be your first choice. California Lutheran was the last school that I found on my search but it would have been my first choice all along had I known about it. The best thing that I can tell you is to look outside of your surrounding area because you only have four years at college so why not experience someplace completely different while you're there. And if you're not happy with the choice you made the best thing to do is to leave. Go where you're happy!
Dana
My advice to parents and students about finding the righ college is to do your research and visit as many schools as possible. I believe that the visit to my undergraduate institution is what sealed the deal on my decision to attend California Lutheran University. Visiting the school gives you a sense of what the school is like (how big it is, what the students and administration are like, etc.) and also allows you to see how you feel when you are on the campus. I visited a few schools and just had a gut feeling that they were not the right places for me, but once I set foot onto the campus of the school I attended, I instantly knew that it was the best place for me. The best advice I can give is to follow you instincts and do your research. To make the most of the college experience I would suggest that you be strong in your ideals, but also be open minded to the entire experience because college is about exploration and finding out who you truely are as well as what you truely believe about the world around you.
Molly
I am from Arizona where there are only three universities in the entire state. Like many other students, I wanted a college experience that I could be involved in and not feel like one more student out of thirty thousand. I chose to attend a small, beautiful school in California. With CLU's price tag it seemed like a dream but with two jobs, an academic scholarship, and hard work, it became reality. I cannot express how grateful I am that I found CLU. I have become a strong, independent person who enjoys waking up and going to class every day. I have many friends back home who are unhappy with their college choice of staying in-state and wish they could do all it over again. My advice is to not be afraid to take a chance with college; follow any passion that has been building up inside. Small schools especially give opportunities to become involved and learn on a deeper level. Find a ticket out and just try it. Maybe it will not work, maybe it will, but living with realization that you tried is something incredible that will always be there.
follow passions
Kathryn
make sure to visit and really weigh your options. be social and willing to make friends, sometimes you would expect to be friends with some one but in college people are more willing and excited to meet new people. and parents i know you will worry but your son or daughter will be safe with friends. good luck and i hope you find the right school for you.
Emily
Talk to students that are currently attending the university because they will have the most insightful and current information. Look into the programs offered by the university that are related to all prospective majors (and remember that students change their majors a lot!) Look into how often the university raises tuition when deciding if the university is a good choice, financially, for you. Find out about free activities, tutoring programs, etc. and take advantage of them! Explore the surrounding areas and decide if you will be happy there with the activities/attractions nearby. Will you need a car to get there? Find out if the university is made up of mostly out-of-state students, in-state students, commuters, etc. What kinds of scholarships are offered at the university? Visit, and ask a lot of questions!
anthony
Follow your heart and remain open minded. In the end the school you choose will reflect you as an individual. Look for a school that exemplifies you as a person "in the now" and will affect you over the years in a strictly positive manner. Although your parents may influence your decision in choosing a school remember, your are the one that has to spend the next 4 or 5 years at that institution. Look for a school that is liberally sound. Professors will be more likely to empathize with the hardships of being a college student. Since a college is a community in itself ,take time and explore the different clubs, activities, and sports. In the end you will find yourself branching out and coming into your own as a member of the human society. Pick an institution in which you can imagine yourself leaving as a young adult and returning as a man or woman.
Kira
Choose a school based on where you feel at home when you visit. Don't worry about who has the best record.
Alex
Making the most out out college can be a difficult thing because it goes so fast. Although, if you pace yourself and stay organized college will do most of the work for you. Be involved, ask questions and travel abroad and you can't go wrong.
Noah
To find the college that works for you, you need to look at the classes that are offered, and the teacher student ratio. Also take note of the religious affiliations of the school; if its conservative. Take in the campus structure as well. The campus will be your home for your college life. Once in college never forget who they truly are. Always be aware of those people in your life that truly love and care for you, and dont turn your back of them. Do what you love, and believe in what you do. The easiest thing to do is lose sight of who you are. If people dont accecpt you for the way you live your life, then be patient, becuase other people will. If people dont want to accept you, dont worry about them, they wouldnt deserve to have someone like you in there lifes.
As for the parents, my words of advise are to try and not worry. Your kids are leaving home, and you dont want to push too much. This may cause them to rebel or act out just because they are out of the house and can without you knowing.
Lauren
Look everywhere. Go see multiple schools. Start your junior year of high school and take the tours!
Kim
You should research colleges as much as you can. Look for class sizes, cost, how the faculty and students react with each other, and also the social environment of the school. In addition to that, you should look at the location of the school, you would like to go to a school where you know you will be able to find things to do when on and around campus. I would just say, if it feels right, go with your gut choice, if you have a good feeling about it go for it!
Jenny
If you are staying in a dorm room, leave your door open! You can meet a ton of new people that way.
Crystina
Some advice I would give is to make sure that you choose not only a college that you feel comfortable with but also that your parents are comfortable with. Nothing is worse than having worried parents. Lucky for me my parents love my college and love to visit. Also, make sure you make yourself familiar with the area your college is in so if you ever need to get away from campus or do something fun, you have outlets. You need to make sure that you are going to enjoy your college and the area surrounding it. It will be your home for four years.
Whitney
Go with what your gut tells you. I was on the fence with two schools and I went with my gut. Visit the schools you are really interested in at least twice and spend the night. If you are into sports make sure you meet the team and the coaches. Try to be active on campus for your freshman year because it is easier to adjust to a new environment and easy to make friends. Parents, let the kid choose; don?t push them to go to your alma mater or what is cheaper.
Megan
Apply to every college you want to go to no matter how much work it takes. Really take the time to look into all the programs the university has to offer. Participate in activities that you never thought you would. It will balance you out and you never know who you might meet that could possibly help you later down the line.