Shelby
Harvard offers an unimaginably large roster of extracurricular activities to choose from. If your interest is not represented by one of these preexisting organizations, you can always establish your own group. In terms of social life, Harvard is working hard to promote college-wide events bringing together people who live on different parts of campus. Parties are confined mostly to the weekends; people can be happy either going to these parties or abstaining from them.
James
Most people seem to make their best social connection to Harvard through a student organization. There are hundreds of them here, and getting involved in any group is the best way to meet new people and have Friday night plans from day one. Of course, there are also plenty of other social opportunities, as well: "final clubs" (still functioning dining clubs now more interested in drinking, girls, and interesting combinations of the two), House parties and regular dances (including IncestFest, the '90s Dance, and Fête), a handful of off-campus fraternities, and odd events the university occasionally tries to sponsor. There are concerts, shows, poetry readings, and more every weekend, and the Harvard name is able to draw a fantastic list of guest speakers annually. Boston has a social scene of its own, as well. Dating, however, has been said to be elusive on campus, so students looking for college love may look elsewhere.
Bobby
Harvard has parties, unlike what some people might think. But people here work hard are studying a lot in the library.
Bevan
our social life happens in the library
Alan
I hear people partying a lot, but I prefer not to. I like to think of myself as humorous, occasionally lively, friendly, and mostly easy-going, but I prefer smaller group gatherings without alcohol. For my recreation, I like to breed LIFE (as in plants and small animals). I recently bought a pet snake, but I'm not sure if that's against school rules.
Alex
There's an exorbitant number of resume-padding clubs, particularly those related to finance and Asian issues.
Blake
Whatever you make of it.
Aaron
Sports are big, but the most popular things are the Art Museum events--they are really well attended.
Lindsey
Whether you like to drink and party the night away or you like to explore the sights and culture of Boston, ect......there is always something fun whatever your style is.
Peter
I'm pretty sure that the Harvard Crimson is the biggest student organization, with something like 700 student editors. More people than that overall participate in athletics though. Phillips Brooks House Association has about 1000 volunteers doing some kind of public service, but it's a lot less cohesive since it's done through about 70 different programs.
Fraternities are not important, though the rich Harvard version of finals clubs are important to some people. That said, I've never partied there and they don't really affect me.
On a Saturday night not drinking: go to the pub and play pool, see a movie, go to a play, go ice skating downtown. During the day: go to Harvard's art museums (3!), natural history museum or anthropology museum.
Athletic events ("The Game" = Harvard-Yale aside) are not well attended.
Jessie
Lots of great groups. Social life is decent, just got to know where to find it.
Ryan
I leave my doors open. I met my closest friends freshman year - we all lived in the same dorm. We are still living together.
If I am awake at 2am Tuesday, I would be struggling with my thesis.
I party once a week, and I drink. I got wasted last weekend.
Toby
Students do leave their doors open, and it is *in general* fine. Athletic events are only popular when it comes to H-Y Game.
I met with my closest friends through class + random social gathering of friends + Anneberg.
Annetta
It's hard to say what's the most popular because there re so many things going on, but everything seems to be able to find their niche.
Shawn
The center of social life revolves around extracurriculars, athletics, and social clubs to a more limited extent.
Sean
Parties can be fun. There are clubs. Boston is certainly not the place to look for a good time. The damn city closes at 2.
Alex
I enjoy participating in different events and do not want to mention the groups since there are too many of them.
Jamie
2am on a Tuesday I would either be writing a paper, or studying for an exam the next day - because all my exams seem to fall on Wednesday. Several times I was up talking to roommates, but only because we weren't in the thick of exams. :) Most of my closest friends I know from the Christian Fellowship, my entryway, and the Internationals. I'm thankful for these particular friends, especially those in the Christian Fellowship, because it is where I can be completely real and honest - something I feel is lacking at Harvard - because of an inherent superiority complex and pride. The dating scene here (something I'm not involved in) can also be quite awkward - there are 3 main categories of dating couples; those who hook up and don't remember each other's names the next day, those who have been dating since freshman year and are, as I write, already engaged and planning their wedding, and those who are neither, who are increasingly coming to terms with their non-existent romantic lives!
Alex
So many things are there waiting for you!!!!