Marylhurst University Top Questions

I would tell myself the following: you made a good choice in parenting at 16. In college, you will attend the school where you go now for your welfare to work program. You will be helping women find safety, security, and stability. Winter term is difficult: allow yourself time to take the Winter off, you perform better the rest of the year. You will be, primarily, a straight A student. Stay active because it allows you opportunity to have mental clarity. Relax, take notes, you are a natural learner. Marylhurst is the school of your dreams: don't be scared.

First and foremost college does not need to fit any particular mold. It does not need to be a specific time period in your young life consisting of 15 credits per quarter for 12 quarters between the ages of 18 and 22. Don’t let tradition or stereotypes hold you back. Life will throw you curve balls. Just because your college career is not fitting the traditional mold does not mean that you cannot continue. Instead, embrace who you are. Be proud of everything you do in life: wife, mom, full time employee and part time student. Definitely be proud of being a part time student. Don’t think of it as being inadequate because you can’t take full time coursework and still complete everything else you do. Instead be proud that in spite of everything else you do, you’re still able to make time for your education. Soon enough you can be proud that you are a wife, mom, full time employee and college graduate!

Mariia, You graduated. It wasn’t conventional, but what in your life has been? Here's a secret you already know, but forget. You are worthy, smart, and passionate, (your tools). The amount of life you already lived will serve as a benefit to you and your future. Remember: 1) You want happiness. Achieve this by surrounding yourself with people who are. 2) Having everything figured out wont make you safe. No one ever has everything figured out. In trying, you restrain yourself form achieving what you are truly capable of. 3) To get out of your current situation, but choose trusted people willing to help. They're there, you know who they are. Follow your heart. 4) Fear is a tool, and the unknown can ascend you into worlds you don't know exist, and foster positive change (that hear of yours, it's true and solid. Trust it). 5)Know yourself. Travel. Relying on your own devises is one of the best ways to build confidence, and that kind of time spent alone is priceless. You've had to grow up so fast. Be kind and enjoy yourself. I love you, it get's better. Yours truly, Mo

Dear Beth, I know you are a go getter, goal setter and one mind set kind of person, however I would like to encourage you to open your mind up to other possibilities. You will go on to create great things, but if you would only let more into your life, just think of how much more interesting your art would be? Do not judge others, because the only thing that is left at the end of the day are people, they are what really matter. Finacial times are tough...and they don't sotp, but remember the best investment you can make is yourself. This is you future, and if you want to make an impact in your community, then just keep on going, keep loving and keep learning. Do your best and never look back, Your Future Self

If I were to go back to my senior self, I would tell myself it is ok to make mistakes. Life lessons are learned in those mistakes and make us who we are today. I would inform myself that there are going to be bumps in the road but that is ok because they make us stronger and we turn out alright. Finally, it is important to take moments to stop the hustle and bustle of life, and to breathe in the fresh air and enjoy the sun. We don't want to get to the destination and miss out on the journey.

I would have told my self to start studying more to better prepare myself for college. Also, to consider all opportunities that come to you; example, learn to say "no." The main thing that I would tell myself is, "Follow your heart, no matter where it goes."

It is important that you think about what you want to do in life and what will fulfill you long term. College is expensive and if you decide to attend, you must be ready and motivated to commit to your goal. Be mindful of your learning style as well as your holistic aspirations; what do you want to do after you graduate? What kind of lifestyle do you want to lead? How do you see your life ten years after graduation? These are important questions to ask because when you are 18 and graduating high school the motivation to go to college is to get out of your parent?s home and be independent. Consider your goals. Consider what is the easiest and most practical route to meet your goals and take the time to explore your options in the first two years while fulfilling your perquisite requirement. Attending college is an opportunity to gain knowledge experience, maturity and personal fulfillment. Most importantly, stay focused and understand that you should study something that will not only provide you with a source of income, but will fulfill you emotionally and holistically.

I would tell myself to take your time and visit as many schools as possible for as long a period of time allowed. Stay in that environment for a weekend, upwards of a week. You're going to be living here, after all, for upwards of four years! Being comfortable in a space is important to the learning process. Understanding the culture and environment will allow you to make risks you never thought possible and enter a world of huge opportunities.

David, you are the master of your destiny. Take control now and commit to putting forth your best effort. Work now for a better future, one as marvelous as you can imagine. If you go to a quality school you will find yourself constantly energized and encouraged by the experience of attending courses with great professors and fellow students. You will meet others who take interest in your growth and help you feel a part of the learning community. You will feel the freedom and power which an education provides and be able to share that with the world.

I would advise myself to follow my dreams and attend college as soon as possible. I would show myself that it is possible to to go to a good school, without finical help from ones family. I would remind myself that I am smart and that I shouldn't feel inadequate and scared of college. I know now that Marylhurst is a place for me to grow, learn and feel challenged, I would express this and the importance of these feelings to my senior self.