Alyssa
To Alyssa, May 2011—
Embarking on any adventure is thrilling, though fully terrifying. Journeying away from home is no different. As you leave for college, do one thing every day that scares you. Step beyond the comfortable and reach out. Reach out to those on the outskirts. Be mindful of those who are lonely and need a friend. Be an initiator of conversation, even when it cost you time. Remember that authentic community is not instantaneous. It often begins with awkwardness. That's okay. I promise it is worth it. Yes, college is about getting an education for the future, but never lose sight of the importance of the present. Even now as I look toward graduate school I have to repeat these same words over and over. People are what matter most. Everyone has a story to tell.
Remember always to show grace, be gentle, and demonstrate kindness.
With love, Alyssa, January 2015
Connor
I would go back and tell my self to do more scholarships. They really do help when you are trying to pay for school. Being lazy doesn't cut it when it comes to paying for school.
andrew
I would tell myself to apply for every single scholarship possible. Paying for college can be tough and every bit of money awarded to a graduating senior can go towards tution and books.
Myles
Some of those things that seemed so very important; looks, popularity, the groups that you strived so hard to be a part of. They lose much of their luster. Stay focused on the important matters. Most of all laugh at yourself and enjoy family, friends and opportunities that lay before you.
roxane
There are several things I would do different if I had the opportunity to do over again. I would first have a plan A and a plan B. It is always good to have a back-up plan if the first doesn’t work. Keep the grade point average (GPA) high, once it dips it is so hard to retrieve it back. Your GPA can make you or break you in terms of getting scholarships. Communicate with professors, they are most often willing to help, if you just ask for it. Schedule and pace yourself with time management. Adhering to a routine will help you accomplish goals on time. Don’t be a procrastinator, once you have an assignment start on it immediately. If you wait until the last minute anything could go wrong, for instance, your computer crashing with all your information you just typed in. Only borrow the money you need when applying for students loans, the money does have to be paid back. Many of these tips will help you have a successful year in college.
Kathryn
I would tell myself to enjoy the little moments and prepare yourself emotionally for what everyone seems to call "the awkward phase" in life. You will be making changes constantly, and they will affect your emotions. Be honest with your friends about your feelings because odds are, they are feeling exactly the same way. Work hard and stay focused, but don't be afraid to take a break and do something you enjoy. Don't ever take a class just to prove that you can pass, take it because you want to or need to take it. Have fun with your major, but don't buy into the lie that a college degree equals a job offer. Research what you want to go into, and be flexible with your life plans. Use your college's resources as far as career help and part-time job listings, it might land you the job of your dreams. Most of all remember, sleep is not everything, but take naps when you get the chance.
Melissa
If I could prepare myself for the college life, I'd tell myself to treasure the time I have with my family because after getting to college you don't have time to see your family between the studying, rushing and having a little bit of a social life. I'd tell myself to study and when I think I've studied enough, study some more.
Katherine
If I were to go back in time, I would tell myself "Buckle up and enjoy the ride". College is nothing you could have ever predicted. You are going to meet some amazing and wonderful people. Of course, it is going to be very difficult and a little scary, but you can do it. Live a little, and expand your world. Do not lose sight of your goals. The first semester of college is going to feel like it will never end, but you will survive. You will have to study so much and lose a great deal of sleep, though it will be worth it. I know college is going to stretch you to your limits and beyond, but you will survive. You are going to see the world so differently. Most importantly, you are going to develop an amazing relationship with God and dig even deeper into your faith. So, right now I know you are getting close to graduation, and just cannot wait to get out of high school. Though, just breathe. Life goes by way too quickly. Enjoy the time you have left, because college is an amazing experience that you could have never seen coming.
krystal
before entering Mississippi College i needed to be refined, i have became closer to GOD which has brought me peace through out my life at home,school and work. it's really good to know that when you come here you'll be treated equally whether you belive in god or not. it's also nice because there are various programs, and activities you can do to get closer to god, meet more people to help you whether its for Christian views or just trying to plan a better future! The people at this school help when it's time for interviews, they'll walk you through an interview so you'll know what the interviewee expects from you. this school is so vauble because it helps in ways for the present and the future, it really help build you before entering the work/careeer world!!
Sheri
I have learned you get out of it what you put into it. Education is an investment that you will always have a return on. Showing up for class prepared, meaning books, paper, assignments and brain. Be a particiapant in class, learn to study in groups if you are having a hard time learning the material. Particiapte in organizations and workshops that the school offers. I have learned that Virginia College cares about it students and the only way you can fail is that you don't follow the directions as given to you. They give you the tools and resources to be successful. The staff including Admissions, Financial Aid, Career Services and Student Accounts actually care about your well being, they are there when you have questions and don't treat you like a number. I have never attended a school where everything is explained to you until you get it. I love college life I never ever thought College life would be this easy. My advise is to give it all you got, expect a challenge and determine to keep pressing forward. When you stumble , don't give up - Get UP!
Joshua
Since I have attended this college the most important value I have gotten from this college is a closer relationship with God. I have learned new things and made new friends also.
Hanna
During my senior year in highschool I thought I had my college career all planned, but due to the stock market and the fact that I have a twin sister that would be going to college at the exact same time, my plan fell apart. Attending community college for a year after I graduated highschool was the best thing that I could have done. I saved money, and was pointed in a direction and sent to a school that better fit my needs. I was able to focus on the general classes required for any degree, and look into my interests and decide on a school that I probably would never have attended directly out of highschool. I now attend Miami University, a school with a great business program, and a great overall reputation. Attending college is an extremely important desicion, and the school that one choses to attend makes or breaks your career. Walking out with a business degree from Miami University I know that I will have access to many job opportunities and be held to a higher standard and I'm glad that attending community college led me to this school.
Sierra
I have gotten a lot out of my college experience including; becoming more independent, finding friends that I'll keep for a lifetime, pushing myself to succeed and finding out what my strengths and weaknesses are. It has been valuable for me to attend college because I want to become a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner and without school that isn't possible. In the future I want to be able to work with children and in a hospital enviroment. I would like for my career to succeed and give my kids in a future a good role model to look up to and I think for that to happen college is neccessary.
Katie
I have gotten discipline out of my college experiance. After completeing my freshamn year of college I took some time off to discover what I wanted to do. After two years of thinking, I decided to return to my local community college and transfer to a four year university after that. I have never been good with processes; working for things and waiting to get the results I desire. I had this habit of quitting everything I started if it didn't work out quickly. However, this year at the community college has really taught me the value of setting a goal and working towards it. It has taught me that in order to get where I want to be, I need to not only dream but persist in the day to day steps needed to get where I want to be. I suppose you could say, college has helped me realize, Rome really wasn't built in a day, and my dream career will be no different. Thank you!
Crystal
College has helped me develop leadership skills. Some of these skills include; time management, critical thinking skills, and teaching skills. I have had a variety of opportunities to work with other students as a toutor at my college. This has helped me devlop teamwork skills. Critical thinking is a common thread through my classes. This has affected my personal life in a contructive manner and will use the critical thinking skills learned in college the rest of my life. The teachers have been valuable mentors to devlop these thinking skills and have pushed me to do my best. It has helped devlop my character and I am stronger for my time at my college.
LaNesha
My college experience has been great, it is preparing me for the real world and I value it so much because the environment is safe and the professors are amazing and at Mississippi College every student will learn.
Crystal
I have gotten greater insight into who I am as a person. College has helped me find myself and realize what I want to be in life. It has also gave me knowledge that I can apply towards my career and my future.
Lauren
One of the most important aspects of college is realizing the world for what it is- the growing up that one does during his or her four (or more) years. I have had many experiences while attending my college that have contributed to my knowledge of the world and my maturity. I've learned that while one always needs other people, people are not always dependable. It is important to seek help from others, but you always need a back-up plan. Another important thing I have gleaned from college thus far is the relationships I have built. Because of the professors I have made connections with here, as well as businessmen and people around the community, I've developed many useful references for my resume', and have connections to other places around the nation that will aid me after college.
Diana
I would tell myself that first of all, make sure to study. Studying is a big thing in college. Even though you may believe that you are very intelligent, never think that there is no need to study. I was a straight A student and my frist semester of my freshman year, I decided to enjoy college life and not study at all because I thought it wouldn't be a big deal. However, I was highly mistaken. Now I am studying extra hard to pull my GPA up. Another thing is that don't think that everyone is your friend. It is good to have friends, but many are there to take from you instead of giving or helping.
Ambreana
Throughout my college career, I have been pursuing my goal of becoming a multilingual doctor. This has leaded me though many life lessons and challenges that would have been beneficial to know as a high school senior. The four most important pieces of advice I could give to myself would be to always stay focused on my goals, have diligence in my studies, stay prayerful throughout the entire journey and keep balance between academic and social life.
As focus is the map to success and prayer is the vehicle; diligence is the gas in the engine. College life is not easy; it has many rigors and distractions that can lead students away from their ultimate goals. However, students who diligently pursuing their goals, while maintaining a strong prayer life often sacrifice the ?fun of the moment? for wise morally sound decisions that will help the student achieve success the long run. Although they maintain focus, it is also important that they make time for friends and personal relaxation. Keeping one?s goal in mind, maintaining diligence, staying active in one?s personal prayer time, and keeping balance in every day life is critical to outcome of a successful college experience.