Melissa
My collegiate experience encompassed not only what was taught within the classroom, but more importantly, what I learned outside of the classroom walls. College is a time for self-discovery, exploration, and social learning. While my lectures and classroom experience was of value, it was the friendships, experiences, trials and failures that I endured outside of class, that have helped shape me into the person I am today, with the goals I now possess. College is a time to explore new possibilities, to propel yourself out of your comfort zone, and to explore new possibilities. The physical act of leaving one's childhood home, in preparation for the college experience is such an important time for personal growth. It is with this juncture from the known that students attending college for the first time have the commonality of feeling estranged, alone, and uncertain with their entire freshman class. It is through this commonality that bonds are formed, fears are subsided, and lifelong friends are made. I encourage all students to attend college, if for no other reason than to experience firsthand, what the collegiate experience will teach, outside of the classroom walls.
Kaleigh
I have gained many new experiences from attending college. I discovered the liberating feeling and great responsibility of living on my own. I have made many great friends and formed bonds that will last me throughout my college career and, in some cases, the rest of my life. I have been introduced to many new kinds of food in the dining commons I probably never would have tried otherwise. I have gained many fun experiences in clubs and school events. I have even become more fit thanks to the biking culture in Davis. I have experienced the fast paced quarter system and the more professional way students are treated here compared to high school.
My college experience has been very valuable. I have gained new skills that will actually do me good in the real world. I have gained the ability to take care and be responsible for myself. I definitely have fun here which is completely worth my time. I have learned things in my classes that I actually care about because I know how the knowledge will be useful in my future career.
Faye
The change from high school to college was certainly a big one, one of such monument that it is impossible not to learn from. I have learned the importance of thinking for myself, which in turn leads to acting for myself. Living with my peers, as opposed to under the watchful eyes of my parents, has taught me to self-regulate and to fully appreciate what I have both as a student and as a member of this modern society. It has been enforced that my actions will have consequences, and that doesn't mean a grounding or a lecture, it means that my life will be affected by everything that I choose to do. Every day I wake up to go to class and to interact with my peers; to be present in this learning environment proves the impact we have on each other and our surroundings. College seems to teach constantly, and I have learned that I am important in my own life and that, by being active in my own as well as the global community, I can make whatever kind of difference that I want to make.
Trevor
By continuing my education and attending college i have learned some very important lessons. For one it has taught me the value of time management. Having to be responsible for my work in several classes forces me to prioritize my work. If i didnt take this lesson to heart i would be buried under alot of course work thanks to my own procrastination. Another lesson learned was being independent and responsible for my grades and course work. While it is a good thing to seek and get help from your peers. One must take into account that there will not always be someone there to help me. So its important to be able to do the work myself and have the discipline to stay focused and on task. In short by me attending college it forces one to mature into a responsible adult who can handle their priorities. It prepares us for the real world.
Qiana
So far my college experience has been very positive. I was lucky to be placed with an amazing group of girls in my suite last year as part of the dorm housing. Two of them I am living with again this year and we get along so well. They were a great support system last January when my uncle passed away suddenly.
I have been involved with a community service club called Tzu Ching, which is part of the larger international organization Tzu Chi. Through this club, I have grown to be compassionate in everything I do. Each week we host a homeless breakfast distribution and hand out food, clothes, soap, blankets and any other items that we can. This summer, we are hoping to travel to Haiti to help out the earthquake survivors. To do this though, each of us needs to pay our own way to get there. The club is filled with intelligent, kind, beautiful people and I feel very blessed to be able to volunteer with such a unique set of individuals.
College has opened my eyes and shown me that I must work hard, love everyone and everything, and enjoy the life I was given.
Stuart
So far from college, I have noticed that the habits I am picking up now are the ones that shape my future self. Living in my own place managing myself is much different than I thought it would be like. I have revealed countless personality traits of mine that I never realized existed. It is valuable for me to test the waters right now and find out what I can handle, but still my my mom as a life vest to bail me out. I also have made new friends and began networking to other cities for job opportunities. I understand now that knowing people is the easiest way to have the upper hand, so I have been working on finding people with similar interests in case later down the line, I can use their service. Attending school is so valuable because it gives me four years to meet as many people as possible.
Roseanne
Feel freely to the fullest, the freedom of being yourself in whatever new and unfamiliar environment you end up being in. Don't be afraid to express your passions and what you believe in. In the beginning it may be scary, entering new territory and new faces, when you've been used to the same people these past four years. But don't be afraid to put yourself out there; there is no need to compromise yourself to the norm and assumptions of "college life" or fitting in. Academically, grades are important, but just as Mark Twain said, "Don't let schooling interfere with your education." There are so many great classes and books; just so much to learn about the complexities of the world; so take it in with brand new eyes, beyond your assumptions and beyond political ideologies. If there's one thing I've learned in college that has changed my perspective and approach to life, it is that the whole world is interconnected and complex, politically, socially, and economically. Everything affects everything. The world is yours to explore, you can never stop learning, so take it in; analyze, embrace it, and apply it in real life!
Micaela
Should have went to her and ask a lot more question and worried about college a little more.
Princess
I f I could go back to highschool and talk to my self I would have told myself how important that it is to stay in school. I was suppose to graduate in 1996 but I came out a year later hanging with the wrong group of people. I had always been a great student I just lacked at the end. Knowing what i know now I would have stayed focused, went to college right after high school, applied for scholarships. Its just so much I would have said to myself mainly because I am 32 years old and i am a Freshman I know its never to late to go to school But I could easily be in my career at this point. For future students to com I would tell them the same thing to stay in school and be focused on your work because someday it will payoff.
Lauren
Dear Lauren,
DON'T HOLD BACK!!!! Get involved with as much as you can and fill your time with things that you love. Explore the world and find out what you want to accomplish in life. Have fun and put your heart into everything that you do. I know sometimes things will get overwhelming but it is important to keep everything in perspective and not get caught up in superficial things. I know you are hearing this from everyone right now but really take it to heart. With an open mind and a willingness to try new things you will have an amazing experience.
Academically college is going to be challenging for you and centered around science classes. This will get extremely hard, especially when you get involved with extracurricular activities. Time management skills will become crucial to stay on top of your grades. Remember you are in college to learn. It may not seem like it most of the time but your success in college determines your success in life. This will be the most amazing experience of your life, cherish it!
Love,
A wiser and older Lauren
P.S. Practice riding you bike before you get to school!!
Nicole
"Nicole, you have no idea." Those would be the first words out of my mouth if I were to go back in time and speak to myself. One's first year of college is enlightening and frightening, uplifting and disappointing, challenging and rewarding. I would warn myself that unexpected moments of lonliness and anxiety are part of the package when you leave home for the first time, but do not dwell on those feelings, because regardless of how isolated you will feel in acclimating to your new environment, you will not be alone. Those feelings unite you and your fellow students in one of the most emotionally singular experiences you wilI ever encounter. Rely on your self-awareness and courage. I made the mistake of going through much of my first year wide-eyed and inhibited. I'd want to advise myself to step out of my shell, to accept my new and enthralling surroundings, to study, retain, and relish in the education I was receiving. Most importantly, to never feel intimidated by nor responsible for my youth and inexperience. My advice, in sum, would be to tell myself that it takes time to adjust, and frankly, that is OK.
Pedro
If I could go back in time and give my high school senior self advise about college I would say many things. To begin with I would tell myself to not slack off on the simple tasks and use your time to master the material at hand. I would tell him to break the habit of procastinating because in college that means doom. In high school it was easy for me to overachieve in any class, but I sometimes wasted my time doing nothing but chat with friends and it was hard to get out of that habit. I would also tell him to enjoy your last senior moments once he was done with his work. In college it is easy to get distracted by these parties that happen everywhere, but if you focus on first doing you work and then party as a high school senior he would be able to experience college at its fullest. My last words of advise would be to focus on exploring every subject and find one that you are happy doing. What matters the most is what you want to be and not what everyone else wants you to be.
Xeng
If I had the chance of going back in time, I would tell myself to build leadership skills. College is all about communication and making new friends. I was unprepared for this change. When I enter college, I had a hard time socializing and making friends. With the experiences I have now, I would advise myself in the past to be more social. By building good leadership skills, I know I can be more active and willing to socialize more. Leadership skills are the one thing that I lack as of now. Although I have made friends and am more active, it could have been easier. College is a place where leadership skills are greatly shown. No one is embarrass to stand up and communicate or approach someone they don?t know and just socialize. I would advise myself in the past to learn leadership skills. College would be much more fun and easy with it.
Cheryl
If I could go back to when I was a high school senior I'd say to take the bus when it rains; there is nothing that says you must bike to class in it and do a drowned rat impression and sit in class with wet jeans. I would tell myself that kissing your boyfriend in class is just as unacceptable in college as it was in high school and that you were lucky your friends didn't smack you for it. I would say to take more friends home with you and to make your mother laugh; she will worry about you and make you call her daily. Go see your sister more often and take advantage of her as a resource; she went through this too. I'd say to worry less about grades, and more about how you spend money. Most of all I would tell myself to get used to feeling a little out of place at home because it is normal and has to happen sometime, and that at least this way you have a great town to call home and friends as close as family to catch you when you fall.
Nicole
I would tell myself to look into my field more closely and truly make sure that I would enjoy pursuing a career in it, since I have had to change not only my school but also my major to look forward to class and a future career each day. I would also tell myself to look into more scholarships and apply for as many as possible so that I would not be in debt with my loans and no way to pay them back. I would also have planned better for my child's birth and began online schooling initially, so that I could continue my schooling unhindered. As it stands, I've had so many set backs in my programs that I'm still a freshman where most of my friends are going to be graduating in 2010. If I could go back to warn myself about the difficulties in senior year I think I'd be much more prepared than I actually was for college, because any preparation I got in high school was not as helpful as my own experiences and problems. Now I am prepared, but sadly between a rock and a hard place!
Eric
The transition from a semesterly academic system to a quarterly academic system is intense so prepare yourself for a fast paced academic environment. Grading becomes contingent upon significantly fewer items, so make sure you invest every effort in those few items to maximize your GPA. Staying on top of the material (especially in terms of reading) is absolutely essential so make sure you do that. The focus for your college experience should be the academic environment around you, not the social ongoings of your classmates. Every offering the school provides is an opportunity you should take every advantage of, such as career fairs, guest lecturers, and internships. Approach your professors not only in class, but in their office hours. They are a resource like anything else on campus, and you should spend as much time as you can learning from them and their experiences, not only about academic materials, but also about life experience. But most of all, take the time to truly learn about yourself! - "The greatest explorer on this earth never takes voyages as long as those of the man who descends to the depth of his heart. " ~Julien Green
jennifer
I would attempt to convey that big failures can be a whole lot more valuable and important than successes. If you completely fail at something and subsequently use it as a motivation to redouble your efforts and learn from what went wrong, you?ll end up achieving a lot more than if you had quickly become content with an early victory. I would also tell myself that college is a complete change compared to high school. Study more and worry less about the small things in life that cause unnecessary depression, frustration and sadness. Instead focus more on you and your faith. Think about what really makes you happy and reach for your wilest dreams and most of all have as much fun as you can becuse in order to be prosperous, a long journey awaits you and you will need to be devoted, determined and strong.
Jacqueline
I would tell myself that you only get out of school what you put into it. Even though I always succeeded in school, it was still important to invest time and energy into becoming even more academically successful. It's important to develop a report with your professors. They will only know you if you attend office hours, ask questions, and become involved with their research outside of class. It's important to make connections with professors, administrators, and classmates. College life is an opportunity to practice real world situations. In order to be competitive in grant applications, scholarships, internships, and ultimately job placement opportunities, it's important to make yourself known to your professors and to participate and found clubs and other campus-related organizations. I would tell myself not to waste time. In order to achieve my goals, it?s important to be active in studies, but also in social-networking. Once you have separated from your school, you will not be able to go back and pad your resume, your experiences, or your academic and research abilities.
Dexter
Don't be afraid to make friends with everyone as there is no bad that can come of it. Speak to your professors because they have all the answers. Remember that school always comes first, but that doesn't mean friends come last. Or course, this is all dependent if you do decide to go to this school. I'd advise you not to if you really don't want to go into debt and face possible homelessness. On the other hand, the people that you meet and create bonds with are sometimes worth the material suffering.
Alison
If I could go back in time and give myself advice about college life and making the transition I would tell myself the following five pieces of advice: 1.) Keep yourself open-minded to academic spheres and career paths. 2.) Advocate for yourself, speak up in class, make connections and network with everyone around you- especially your professors and fellow dedicated students. 3.) Allow time for yourself to indulge in fun activities like yoga, dance classes, sports teams. Take advantage of every interesting and unique opportunity offered to you as a student. 4.) Appreciate every moment of college life because it will be one of the last times where your main job is to be a student and soak up knowledge with out carrying deep and burdening responsabilities (jobs, spouses, children, etc.) 5.) Take risks. I am talking about the "good" risks where you throw yourself into a community service project, start your own student organization, offer yourself as a research assistant to a professor, try out for the main role in a university play, join a music class even if your not a music major. Believe in yourself.