Krista
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell her to strive to realize that she has all the potential in the world, and that hard work will always pay off. I would tell her to always respect herself and know her worth. I would tell her that adventure and experiences are always worth more than possessions. I would tell her to listen to her gut and not succumb to negative influences. I would tell her that drugs and alcohol are never worth it. I would tell her to be herself at all costs and that caring what other people think of her is a pointless battle that can never be won. I would tell her that she doesn't have to know her life's purpose as long as she breathes positivity into the world every day. I would tell her that God is real, and seeking a relationship with Him should always be the first and most important priority in her life. I would tell her that her less anxious, more loving and open future self will be so incredibly grateful to her if she takes this advice.
Carmen
To pursue a field of study that your both passionate about and that will provide a sustainable living. Always have your resume updated should a new and possibly unforseen opportunity arrise. Don't be afraid to seek out other job opportunities after your employment in your first job.
Johnel
If I could go back as a senior in high school I would have done every possible thing in my power to attend college as soon as I graduated from high school. Being a student at 46 years old, working a full time job with major responsibility is much harder than being 18-19 years old with only your acedemic studies on your mind.
I now have not only my financial responsibility of college on my plate, but I have put two grown sons through college as well. If I would have attended college when I was young I would have a much better job than I do now and the financial struggles that I have had all of my life would surely have been alleviated due to a higher education.
I did not realize that an affordable education was out there for me when I was 18, my parents did not encourage me to attend college. They did not have the money or means to send me, I have been a single parent for 15 years and I have made it a priority to find ways to give my sons an education that no one can take away.
Rebecca
If given the opportunity to speak to myself as I was a year ago, I'm positive that I would take a long time to give advice to my younger self. I would probably give advice on everything from what major to pick to what school I should attend. However, the most important piece of advice I would have for myself is to not get easily frustrated. Many freshman level classes seem pointless when you take them. Now that I am at the end of my first semester and reflecting on my classes I can see the things that I have learned, though they were not obvious at the time. Therefore, I would advise myself to simply follow along with the projects the professors assign, no matter how pointless they seem. Getting frustrated only makes completing work more difficult, as the project still has to be done and having a negative attitude only makes it harder to finish. Looking back on my first semester of college, getting easily frustrated is the biggest mistake that I have made. Had I been able to give myself this advice my first semester would have been much more enjoyable.
Kristie
Each day begins with wishing I had chosen a path of definition and purpose rather than the closest to the finish line. Now in my thirties, I am rerouting my future in search of the fulfillment I previously overlooked. Preparing to exit the ranks of high school and begin anew I narrowly focused on where I thought I wanted to study instead of making the best of a program that already wanted me on campus. Further, when an 18 year old faces the decision of how to spend their professional life, chances are that will change over the course of his or her college career and when it does, change your curriculum to match this new found passion. Enjoy the journey and put the destination out of mind. Focus on short term objectives before reaching long term goals. After several years of watching the world pass me by, I accepted that simply finishing college is not enough; that each person must create his or her own opportunities and remain thirsty for knowledge throughout life, not just in a classroom.
Christina
If I were able to go back in time and speak to my younger self, I would say don’t sell yourself short. Stand up for yourself because no one else will. Start college directly after school, speak to counselors and fill out your fafsa. The fact that you are in foster care is a good factor for you. You will be able to get finical aid, loans and grants that will help pay for college. Study hard, make good grades, and decide on your major by studying the classifieds. The job market should be what makes your decision on choosing a major. A degree in a subject that you like, does not guarantee a job. Use the job market as a decision factor on your major, looking at areas with the greatest need.
I would emphasize not having a child directly after high school. Although, it is not impossible going to college and having a child it makes advancing in school much harder and takes time away from the two things you want to devote your time to, school and your child. Both school and children need your undivided attention and you don’t want to miss a step.
Shannon
Don't go to the that big school, skip that, and go to a school where you are a name not a number. You'll get more for your money, drink less, learn more, and be less depressed.
Brianna
To start applying for scholarships as soon, and as often as you can. I would also say that you shouldn't worry about it, you'll meet some great friends and have some great memories, that will definitely balance out the bad days and add to your pile of good things.
Nicholas
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior I would tell myself that college takes a lot of responsibility. I would tell myself that it doesn’t really matter where all your friends are going to school. I would say that you need to make your decision for you and know one else. I would also tell myself that I would need to completely dedicate myself to my studies. When I was a senior in high school I thought that college would be fun and full of parties. Over the past three years I have learned how important college is to me and my family.
Rachel
I am a mother of four who was a stay at home mom. Although I have owned a business and ran many different charitable fundraising events, I was not challenging myself mentally. Cerebrally, I was feeling a little stagnant. My college experience at this stage of my life has changed all of that.
My goal in returning to school after 22 years was to earn a degree in order to be able to return to the job market armed with the necessary tools required for the career of my choice. Although my original intentions to attend the university were a means to the end, I have discovered that it has become so much more than that.
I returned to school last summer (2010) and a new world opened for me, a world where I am acquiring knowledge that I have found pertinent and valuable to my everyday life. I have made numerous life-long friends and have been able to positively touch the lives of many young people.
I'm empowered with a new level of esteem and respect for myself. These traits and my school accomplishments will only help my children (2, 7, 12, & 17) in their academic careers.
Kelly
The college experience, for me, has been a long road. I have managed to learn a great deal about the reasons for the courses I had no idea why I "had to take" when I was much younger. Now I understand the need for interdisciplinary studies, learning the basics of a different field allows you to see your own field of study from a slightly altered perspective. It breeds better understanding and greater ability to solve more complex problems.
Overall, I have learned to be a more well rounded student, and I apply the knowledge I have gained to my daily experiences. I hope to impart the same love for learning to my daughter so that she can be enriched by a more open mind.
Martin
My college experience has been an exciting ride of discovery and learning. College has allowed me to interact with a wide variety of people who have a variety of views. I have had to find ways to work with them to get assignments done while not treading too heavily on their feelings nor letting them tread on mine. I have also come to realize that there is more and more truth to the saying, "Knowledge is power," as you go through college. My time management, responsibility, and work ethics have all improved. If nothing else, the experience has opened my eyes to new ideas about education. I am more excited to go to school now than I was in high school and I want to learn. Apart from academics, my college experience has helped me grow as an individual. I have been able to become the person I want to be and have met amazing people who I will know for the rest of my life. College has made me want to do everything in my ability to become a more well informed world citizen so that I can help make this world a better place in any way possible.
Njeri
I have not been here long, at college. It is a very big change from where I came from and what I can say I take most out of this experience is growing up. I am an adult now and I am seeing and living life now on my own two feet. For that I am very grateful.
Madeleine
The last time I was in college the Rolling Stones "Satisfaction" was a hit, as was the Beach Boys "Good Vibrations", Frank Sinatra's "Stranger's in the Night" was the romantic dance of choice. Bell bottoms and miniskirts were in, as was Nancy Sinatra's "These Boots are made for Walking.
We banned the bra, marched for civil rights, protested the war in Viernam and partied at Woodstock.
We reared our children, BBQd in our backyards, kept house and some of us had careers, butred our spouses and lived our life; but the idea of aging gracefully does not mean you have to age in place.
Just because you are older and may have accomplished one career it is not to late to start another . The next years are the most productive years and you can be of significant service to others..
Amy
If I could go back to Amy at 17, I would tell her many, many things. The most important lesson I learned about college is don?t believe the ?hype? of leaving home. Try community college for a semester or two before spending $20,000 more per year at a school away from home. Making the transition from living at home to being on your own will NOT be easy. As much as you want to get away from parental control and sibling rivalry, the first time alone is challenging. Don?t be so interested in determining your major and complete college experience in the first semester. Allow yourself to be a little undecided. Another thing I would have encouraged Teen Amy to do would be to take a year off. Try working a real job and supporting yourself on minimum wage. A few months of ?real world? experience would have increased my interest in getting college right the first time. My first attempt at college was less than successful. After experiencing life without education, I learned the most important lesson. I knew I could never achieve the professional goals I had set for myself without a college degree.
Deidra
I would advise myself not to rush off to a big four year institution. I would advise myself to attend a two year college first just to get a feel of college life. I would tell myself to use all available resources and not to waste any time when it comes to studying and filling out paperwork, such as FAFSA application. I would tell myself to reahc out to other people for help if you find that you need it and to not allow yourself to get distracted from the point of going to college and earning a degree.
Jane
First and foremost..Calm Down! While the college application process and the idea of college itself may be intimidating, they?re nothing to lose sleep over. As graduation approaches, find that balance between enjoying your last months as a high-school student and preparing for your first months at a university.
By the way, when I say A university, I mean one. Narrow down that list of colleges that you?re considering by making campus visits. You can read pamphlets and talk to alumni, but the only way to know if a school is right for YOU is to experience it firsthand. And no matter where you choose to go, don?t worry about declaring a major freshman year. Many first-year students enter college undecided. Give yourself time to be certain of your choice.
If you take the time to find the school that's right for you, I promise you?ll love it. College is an opportunity for an education and independence that go beyond any of your past experiences. It only happens once, so make the most of it! (And I swear, living in a 12x16 room with another person isn?t as bad as it seems).
Matthew
If time travel was possible, a piece of advice I would give myself as a high school senior would concern the use of leisure time in college. Being independent and away from home, it is very easy to get too comfortable and slack off on responsibilities like studying and completing homework. While I have experienced an overall lesser work load thus far, the trade-off in college is that one must have responsibility with time management and enforce self-control, less be subjected to late nights, unnecessary stress, and the possibility of not meeting one?s full potential. ?Completing those assignments at the last minute may be working for you now,? I would tell myself, ?but I?ve come to realize that most college courses do not allow nearly as much room for procrastination, or redemption?.
I have learned in college that when it comes to classes, everything counts. Never should a student attempt to simply coast through a class and only work hard when grades are suffering; sometimes, there is simply no such thing as a ?second chance?. From the very beginning, one must be on top of their work, at all times, and not let deadlines slip by.
Simone
The transition to college from high school has tremendisously impacted my previous notion that I would be able to slide through freshman year. After experiencing the first semester of my college career, I've realized that I should have listened to my high school teachers more and paid attention to their efforts to prepare me as not only a student but an aggressive individual as far as conducting school business is concerned. In high school I had a terrible tendency to rely on my teachers to push me further but now realize that I must motivate myself in order to succeed. In conclusion, if I could travel back to senior year, my first semester of college would have been less stressful and I would have been more focussed on the necessary objectives at hand.
Gayle
Enjoy the college experience but make sure that you attend all of your classes and absorb as much of the education they are offering. Later in life, those facts and information will come in handy and you will regret not being there. If you find that your passions have changed, do not hesitate to change your major and take classes that you will enjoy. You are talking about your future and the rest of your life. You felt that you wanted to go into the business and accounting but did not act on it when you were younger. You are now returning to school to pursue your interests after having two children and being married for 14 years. You are fulfilling your dream, it is just going to take you a little longer since you are doing it along with so many other activities.