Brandy
I would give myself advice on finanical stability. I would make sure I payoff my vechicle and save money. I would also study harder to know how education can be stressing and a hardship at times. I would also probably looked at colleges more closely so I can stay close to my family. I would also looked more closely at jobs to pay for my personal needs and housing. Also, I would have probably told myself to focus more on being a student then looking for a boyfriend because at times a partner can be distracting from school work and class. Basically, if I were to go back in time I would just spend most of the time preparing myself alot more to make sure I dont fail college or drop out. I would have also looked at things more closely like counseling for college or saving money for school or vechicle. But I can say that I dont regret where Im at now. And if I where given the actual chance I wouldnt do it. I love what I have now which is loving boyfriend of 5 years, a job, vechicle, place, and soon to be bachelors degree.
Jenafer
I would tell myself to talk to the counselors at school in my junior and senior year in order to gain a better prospective of what my dreams and career goals are. While I received a Presidential Scholarship, I did not end up using it as I had no idea what I wanted to do in my life. Given another chance, I would now use the scholarship to finish my general classes thus allowing myself more time to decide on a career. I would also tell myself not to give up on college though I may be promoted to supervisor and management positions quickly and easily as in the end it is not want I want to end up doing and as it is not my passion I will never be happy with the choice of leaving school for work. Lastly, I would tell myself had I stayed in college I would be in the profession I have dreamed of and am finally seeking, unfortunately I could already be doing it and not still be in school at the age of 34.
Maria
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior and knowing what I know today I would tell myself that I need discipline. It is my first step that will affect the rest of my life. I need to discipline myself to make the right choices as to where to study, what is important as far as school is concerned and to make education my first priority. Discipline myself to make the decisions that will have a positive impact in my life. For the first year in college, I think it is important to befriend students who are new to the college atmosphere like myself and that are committed to their educational goals. Communicating with the instructors and being able to express my concerns can make the transition easier. I would tell myself not to give up, even when you think that everything is against you. It is easier to quit than to continue. When in doudt, I would tell myself to think about the future and how important a college education is for your future. A college education can open many doors. Your future depends on which door you open.
Nelly
If I was talking to myself senior year of high school, I would say "Dear Nelly, do not worry about college life; chose a career, and do not change that choice until you finish your degree." "Do not listen to people and what they have to say about you and the choices that you make, you are a smart girl, so be confident in yourself." "Don't give up, forget where you came from and look ahead, there might be obsticles, but never give up on your education." "Apply for scholarships as much as you can and get involved in extracurricular activities." "Inform yourself as much as you can on the career you want to pursue, and on the schools that you want to go to." "Do not be decieved by persuasive people, that try to sell you an education, look at all your options and chose a place that will give you the most help and guidance." "Nelly, I know that you are scared, and don't really know what to expect of college but be positive, you'll make it, you are a great girl believe in yourself, I know I do." Sincerely "Your future self."
Sandra
I would tell myself to apply myself in high school by taking challengin courses. I would tell myself to apply for scholarships and grants so finances would not be a concern. I would also tell myself to not give up and not let anything stand in my way of receiving my degree. Do not let life get in the way.
Jacqueline
As an adult returning to school, I would remind myself that as a senior in high school that I do not know everything, or have everything figured out. I would tell myself that I am better than I think, and that I should take more time to find a career path. I would tell myself to look into more scholarship and work study opportunities, because having unbelievable debt is not what I want. I would remind myself to take a deep breath and calm down. I would let myself know that my parents are right most of the time and only have my best interests at heart. I would try and learn to trust myself. I would remind myself that living with your parents isn't as bad as you think and that by staying home I could finish school faster, with a better GPA, and with a better school than I originally attended.
Corissa
Knowing what I know now I would tell myself to make sure I am doing what I want to do and not living my life for others. If I always do what others want of me I will never be happy and less likely to succeed. I need to slow down and analyze every possibility for college and professions until I know which one best suites who I am and who I want to be. If those around me really love me then they will support whatever decision I make.
Kathleen
I would tell myself that it might not be a bad thing to hold off a few years before having a family. I would have been better able to care for my family had I gone on to college and gotten some education under my belt. It would have been easier to study without the demands I now have on my time. If I could go back, that's just what I would say: relax. You've got time to be married and have kids. Take a couple of years and grow up just a little bit more, then go ahead and jump into the whole grown-up thing. But, knowing myself as I do, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have listened. Experience seems to be my preferred method of learning things, sadly.
Pamela
Knowing what I know now about college life, if I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself that there are plently of opportunities for a college education. If I decided not to go the traditional route of attending college (like staying on campus and moving away from home), there are other alternative's like on-line colleges. By enrolling in one of these colleges, I have the option of working a full time job and attending school while still living at home or living on my own. Sometimes high school graduates are not ready to leave home or even attend school right after high school. It is okay to start college later in life especially if you know what it is you are seeking. I would tell myself it is never too late to start college, just do it a little sooner than later so you can reap the benefits of having a college education and degree.
Jessica
If I were to travel back in time, I would emphasize the importance of what seems to me at the time as useless education. I would explain my current status on education, financial, and family topics due to my past decisions. I would explain that fear of independence is only a henderance. I would tell myself to continue striving to receive a masters degree in mechanical and structure architect weither the field does obligate to move away from family. I would explain that I do not regret all of my decision. I would explain that there is only one decision I regret and that is the feeling of importance to have friends. I would tell myself that friends are not a factor in financial or family stability but instead a henderance. Last, I would tell myself to place happiness above anything else. Life is too short to work at a job that does not bring happiness, have a partner that does not bring happiness, and feel obligated to daily duties that do not bring happiness. Live life to the fullest.
Michelle
The biggest piece of advice I would give myself would be to not get pregnant. I was never able to finish high school because I got pregnant and decided to drop out after my freshman year. Granted things have worked out and I have a good life now. Things would have been easier had I decided to wait to have a child. Actually strike all that... everything has worked out and I wouldn't want to tell myself anything that might alter my future. I have a wonderful husband and two beautiful children and even though for most of my life I have felt like I was given lemons, the lemonade sure is refreshing.
Erica
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, knowing what I know now about college life and the transition, I would advise myself to possibly take the one year off of school as planned but not to take anymore time than that off. One year turned into ten and even though I am doing well in classes and am more responsible now than I would have been then, I could be much further in a career I love instead of just working a job that does not bring me very much pleasure or fulfillment in life. My advise to any high school senior is not to wait on their education if they ever plan on continuing it, but to take advantage of a college education as soon as possible.
Deborah
I would tell myself focus on finishing high school and attend a community college by taking math courses. In addition, I would advise myself to seek counseling from community colleges regarding my future interest in life. I would also visit different colleges outer state along with major hands -on job opportunities in a part time job. I would apply myself in understanding financial aid information for saving and investing my income for my future education. I main objective would be to try to focus on what exactly I would like to spend four to eight years in college in completing a masters degree. In accomplighing my goals, I would write down three seperate career goals for my futrue. I would educate myself on the requirements and amount of time it would take me to get there. In addition, I would speak with a progessional career counselor to seek advise in the steps I should take in order to stay on track. Knowing what I know today, I would implement a four year strategy plan to succeed in reaching my goals. Getting married early in life is something I would not get involved in at a young age.
Denise
My high school senior year was far from being a rewarding experience. I was born and raised in the Bronx, NY. I attended a school where there was much violence. Unfortunately, I did not complete my senior year. I was working two jobs to support myself. Three years later, I obtained my GED. As soon as I received my diploma, I enrolled in a community college. I always knew there was something better out there. I obtained my associate's degree in nursing in 2003. I hit a bump in 2008, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was also six months pregnant at the time. Despite going through a horrible experience, I knew there was much more in life that I needed to accomplish. I am currently enrolled at University of Phoenix Online BSN program. Looking back at my childhood and high school years, I wish I had someone (a counselor, or role model) that could have guided me in making wise choices. Things are much different now, my oldest daughter will be attending college in the Fall. She is a great student. Thankfully, her transition will be a lot easier than mine.
Sincerely,
Denise Miranda
Amy
Responsibilities come sooner than you want. Responsibilities aren't just a part of the future, they're a part of your past and your present. Choices you've already made have impacted your future, choices you're making now cannot be covered over by hiding from them in the future. The future is not the time to start planning for your life's path. That time has come and gone, spend every present moment making up for wasted time.
Parents and authority figures have told you you're not an adult, you're young and wisdome only comes with age. What they don't know, is adulthood comes with responsibilities and the responsibility of your future started long ago. Act wise young, educate yourself no matter the sacrifice and plan for your future as if it starts today.
Jessica
If I could go back in time I would tell myself to start college right away. After school I told myself that I needed a year off. In that year I met a boy and got pregnant. Because of this I put school off for years. Finally, I met my husband. I got pregnant with my second child and was put off of work because of a pregnancy related illness. That is when me and him sat down and decided that it was finally time for me to go back to school. I wish that I could go back and tell myself to go to school and get my education sooner than later. If I would have done this I would be more financially stable and able to provide better for my family. That is the best advice that I could ever tell myself.
tameeka
I will tell myself not to wait so long. Getting back into school is a lot more difficult than going straight through to college. Keep focused and head for the dream. Be understanding and don't stop. Every dream you make will come true, just strive for the best and don't stop until you get it.
wendy
I would tell myself to work hard so that I could get scholarships lined up early. I was unsure about college then and I did not know what I wanted to do so I did not go to college. I would say work hard and get into college because it is worth it. It is really hard to find a job in this economy without a degree.
Ricky
Think seriously about what you want. Talk to the advisors about what you want and get a plan in place for what you need to do, what classes you need to take, and what colleges offer the best program and educational support for you to reach your goal. Start now applying for scholerships and grants, keep looking, there is more avalable than you suspect. Ask for help when you need it, now is not the time for pride to block your way. I'd advise you to not let others discourage you, you learn differently than others but you still learn and you retain what you learn far longer than anyone I know, not only that but you can teach others effectively. Equally important to look for the best inyour education and keep your spirits up, you can do it, I know you can.
Inez
If I could go back to my senior year of high school, I would advise my self to not give up. In my senior year of high school I stopped looking at different colleges to attend because I did not think that there way a school that would accept me. I had recieved three different letters from colleges declining acceptance. At the time, I was not happy and did not want to fail again. I stopped looking for a college to attend. I then turned to doing drugs and alcohol which led me no where. If I would not have given up I would have been finished with college and on my way into my career.