Emily
To find the right college, look at about ten different colleges. Half should have what the student/parent thinks they want in a school and half should have something that is different from what is on the "Ideal College List." Visit these colleges and do a ton of research to make sure this is the right college in which the student can feel comfortable and safe and the parent can feel that their child will be safe and happy.
To make the best of one's college experience, try everything. If one tries something new, he/she might find something that they really love that they hadn't thought of before. Don't do the nothing but studying route or the nothing but partying route. A healthy combination of schoolwork and fun makes the college experience enjoyable and productive.
Chelsea
Every person is different so it is difficult to say one way someone could find the right college for them. I would recommend getting as much information as you can, take tours of the campus, talk to students who currently attend that school, and try and focus on the schools where you know you would feel comfortable. I knew Virginia Tech was the school for me by the way my high school was. I knew I wanted something different and since I had always been a Hokie Fan, just learning more about the academics of the school made it that much easier to decide this was the place for me. As for making the most out of your experience, always remember that it is something different and takes some getting use to. But always remember there is another day and another chance to get out there and meet people and have fun. Everyone should try and surround themselves with positive people and people you can count on. Speaking from experience, it sometimes gets bad before it gets great, but I never gave up and I love every minute that I walk on campus and spend time with my friends.
Jessica
The advice I would give to students about finding the right college for them is to really look for something that you love at that school. For me, I love football, and Tech is a HUGE football school, so it was the perfect fit for me. I love the school spirit the whole atmosphere and when I visit other schools, it is not the same and I know that I chose the right school. It just fit. To make the most out of the college experience is to try things that you have yet to do. You may have always wanted to try, but never got the chance or never even thought to try go do it! Academically, socially, career-wise, everything. Choose a school that is going to allow you to explore and build on your talents, hobbies, and interests and you will be guaranteed the most out of college.
David
I would tell the parents and the student to make sure he or she is going to their chosen college for the right reasons. Simply because if they are not going for the right reasons like academics and a future careeer in what they want in life, they will not last and be wasting both time and money. I am in Army ROTC and in the Corps of Cadets here at Virginia Tech and if you are not here for the right reasons you are weeded out very quick. I watched many of my friends fall out of this program for this specific reason. College is not for everyone. I realized this after my freshman year. Families should be aware of all the factors that come into getting a certain degree and what life will be like at their chosen campus. My overall statement is, make sure the student is going to their college for the right reasons. Set yourself up for success and everything else will fall into place.
T'Nora
Finding the right college is extremely important. Looking at a college for its academic standings and ratings is important, but you should never select a college for just that reason. If you dont choose a college in a place where you are comfortable, are able to maintain the best balance of social and academic life, and where you feel you will flourish, you will still have a memorable college experience, but for the wrong reasons. College should be one of the best time of a persons' life and is also one of the most importance times. For this reason my advice is choose the college thats best for you! Weigh all of the important factors and dont choose a school just because its one that other people approve of. Happiness is the best policy, and if your serious about your academics you can flourish at whatever school that you choose!
Kierra
Don't let anything stop you from going to the college you want. Even if you don't get accepted at first you can always apply to transfer. The world is a big place so don't try and go to school that's 15 minutes from your house because you want to stay close to your family. Follow your dreams.
Anna
Be open to possibilities and doors that you may never have anticipated. Don't be afraid to change. I changed my college decision at the last moment, and this was one of the best decisions of my life. To make the most of your college experience, embrace the novelty even when it's scary and don't judge things by the surface. Seek out opportunities and make the most of them. And most of all, be friendly- the key to college success is friends.
Kevin
I know that it is difficult to know exactly what you want in your future no matter what your age is, but the question that you have to ask yourself is "Where do I see myself in X number of years?" and take that information and figure out what school best coincides with making that goal a reality. There are other specifics that you should take into consideration as well such as whether or not you are willing to take out student loans, whether you want to have good football to watch, location, and how big of a school you feel comfortable going to. Wherever you go, it is up to you to make the most out of your own college experience.
Jonathan
The student has to be comfortable with the school. If He/She thinks it will be too dificult for them (either a school or a specific major), then it probably is and you shouldn't pressure them too hard into either taking that major or going to that school. Finding the right school can be tricky, and it helps if you look into what that school is known for. If your child wants to be an engineer look into schools with good science math and engineering curriculum. If your child wants to go to be a journalist, find a school with a good english or liberal arts curriculum.
Moira
Visit campuses - You must feel at home there. College is a time to learn about yourself and how you relate to the world. Pick a school that will nurture individuality and treat you with respect - the faculty is really important to your success, so form good relationships with them. You will make the best of wherever you are, but always surround yourself with intelligent, creative, hard-working, caring people. Make friends, and be open-minded when meeting people. If you end up disliking the college you are attending, don't feel locked-in but give it a chance. Transferring isn't a big deal Never close yourself off from opportunities. Study abroad - finding financial aid is not as hard as you'd think, and it is extremely rewarding. Don't stick too close to your parents, but don't cut yourself off either. You need to figure out how to support yourself. Work hard, not for your parents, for a grade, or for competition. If you neglect your classes, you are only hurting yourself by wasting your own time and money and depriving yourself of education. Time is precious. You are young. Don't waste a single second.
Lindsey
It is a time to stand out rather than fit it. Meet new people and become more independent.
Leslie
Choose what you believe to be right for you, not what you can pay for or what your parents feel is best. Choose a place you feel comfortable the moment you walk on campus, where you can see yourself excelling academically, socially, and mentally.
Bradley
It is vital to find the college that suits you best. Otherwise, you are not going to get the most out of your experience here , which should be the best years of your life. You should visit as many colleges as you can before you apply to see where you might want to go. Make sure you ask a lot of questions when visiting these campuses, especially from current students that you might see randomly around campus as they are usually the most honest. Once you have chosen the college that is best for you, make sure you get involved when you are attending. You will find that you will have a lot of free time and you want to make the most of it. (Don't just sit around and watch TV or play video games like some students do) Go out and join a club, fraternity or sorrority, and if you can, participate in a varsity sport. Overall remember that you take the time to study and get good grades because that is why you are here in the first place!
Gregory
For students finding the right college can be a strenuous task, but find one that suits what you are looking for. Don't choose a college that your parents are trying to get you to look at because if you don't fall in love with that school then you may have second thoughts about your decision. To make the most of your college experience I have two words : Get Involved. Whether you get involved with Greek Life, Clubs, Sports, etc. just get involved because it exposes you to many great things.
Parents, letting go of your children can be a difficult task, you may want them close to home, but they have to find what college makes them comfortable and at home. This is where they will spending the next 4 years of their academic career. They may choose a college right around the corner from home, and they may choose one on the opposite side of the country. Money may be short or you could have an abundance of it, but I believe you should choose where to go because you feel comfortable there and believe you can suceed because it will be where your child chooses.
Eric
I think the student should make the decision based on what they feel they want to do as a possible career. Parents should support and guide the student through the decision-making process, as they can have valuable information from their own experiences to pass on. If the student is unsure exactly what they want to do, find a campus you might like for social life, with academics being a secondary parameter. It is easier to determine you found the right college when you know what you want to do. The college experience is NOT all about classes! It's wonderful! Get outside of your room, join a club or sport. Hang out with new friends you make from class. Explore your campus and the town surrounding it! You may be surprised at what you find. Colleges are great mixing bowls for all kinds of people. They are sure to broaden your perspectives on all aspects of life, so don't be shy! Remember, you're all there to learn, so you already have something in common. But above all, college is what you make it.
Dan
You need to find the college where you feel comfortable and at home and the people are friendly or else you will be miserable. I have never been homesick just because Virginia Tech is like that. Also choose a school that potential employers will know by name and they know that the program you received your degree from is reputable. Finally, make a lot of friends and be involved, but don't let your social life overtake your academic life. You are paying for college to learn and in four years have a good GPA and great experience for your starting job.
Kim
Ask around would be my first advice. I have lots of potential students and parents touring the campus asking what I think about the school. I would recommend this school to anyone anywhere and am proud to say it. As for manking the most of your college experience, get involved! I never joined any clubs and/or sororities, but wish I had taking that opportunity. It's a great way to meet people just like you. Looking back on it now, I would have even sat in on a few classes just to test the waters. There is nothing worse than starting out at a school and finding out it really just is not the right one for you. I would even talk to former alumni to see what they have to say about their past experiences with the school. The alumni at Virginia Tech will tell you what a wonderful campus it was was and still is. Get to know the college you want to go to because more than likely you will be there for 4 or more years.
Alex
The best advice for finding the right college is to just take a trip to the school and take a tour. On the tour, you will see the campus and the lifestyle and get the chance to meet full-time students there. When you find the right school, you will know it right away. You will fall in love right away with that school. When you first come to the school for orientation, dont just sit back and be shy. You need to be outgoing and make friends and be personable. Your life will be much easier if you take the time to get to know people. Find a group of people in your dorm or a class and go out to eat... Get to know people because these are the friendships and relationships you will remember for the rest of your life.
Matthew
Find a college that has a good campus dining program, Virginia Tech is #1 in the nation. Also find a college that has a good layout and teachers focused on teaching and not just research.