Wesleyan University Top Questions

What should every freshman at Wesleyan University know before they start?

Chantil

DO NOT PROSCRASTINATE. RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH. KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE PRIZE. STAY FOCUSED. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. FOLLOW YOUR HEART. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. WRITING IS YOUR BESTFRIEND. NEVER GIVE UP. IT'S YOUR LAST YEAR. MAKE THE MOST OUT OF IT. STAY OUT OF TROUBLE AND HARMS WAY. HAVE FUN. KNOW THAT EVERY DECISION YOU MAKE COMES WITH AN OUTCOME.

Samantha

I would tell myself to follow my heart and remember that everything happens for a reason. When I was applying, it felt like the end of the world when I got deferred from my first choice school. Looking back now I see that had I not gone to Wesleyan, I may have never had the opportunity to meet the people most important in my life or partake in the activites that make my Wesleyan experience a unique and memorable four years. I would tell myself to find a place that found the balance between academics and athletics and, most importantly, a place where I could have fun and grow as a person.

Hannah

Enjoy every minute of it! This is an amazing experience, a wonderful community, and a place full of opportunity.

sarah

My college experience has, so far, been an extremely formative time for me. When I started college I had no idea what I wanted to study, let alone how I wanted to use my degree when I graduated. In my time at college, I had a number of experiences that lead me to declaring Neuroscience as my major, which when I tell my friends from home, they are still surprised because I was never a science buff in high school. Being at school, I was able to discover myself in an academic way as someone who had strengths that I had not previously recognized. In terms of my personal development, college has allowed me to grow and evaluate what is important to me in my relationships with other people and my relationship with myself.

Lisa

Although I am just a sophomore, my college experience, so far, has given me perspective on what my values in life are. As I excitedly exited high school with a simplistic idea of what college would bring –– dorm rooms, parties, books, new friends, and boys –– I was met with all of those things, but so much more, in and beyond the classroom. First of all, I learned that in no way would I have survived the academic struggles I faced in my classes if I hadn't had my new friends to support me. I realized that the something I truly hold dear to are the friendships I form with others. Secondly, I discovered that creating strong friendships required a relationship built on honesty and truthfulness. The virtue of honesty was thereafter inflected towards a relationship I had with myself –– and with my sexuality. After my freshman year, I came to terms with being bisexual and have come out to most of my friends this past semester. Since then, my friendships have only grown stronger, and as I have grown more comfortable and honest with myself, I have thrived in my schoolwork and activities.

Matt

My college experience, howver shot it may be at the moment as a freshman only two-thirds the way through his first semester, has taught me a lot about independence, academic integrity, human nature, the history of education, and many other numerous facts about life.. My attendence here at Wesleyan is valuable on many levels, by allowing me access to many academic and volunteer services and opportunities, and by allowing me the opportunity to delve into an academically challenging, sustainable, reliable, interesting, culturally diverse, and amazing environment.

Elizabeth

In college, I have learned to appreciate the beauty of learning. Learning is not only an educational endeavour, but a life-long pursuit. I find myself listening more to my peers, to my coworkers, to my professors; to everyone that I encounter. There is so much to be gleaned from even the most brief of meetings, and I value every one in them as they help me to understand more about myself and about the workings of this culture. Attending college has placed me in an unfamiliar environment where I have, luckily, been encouraged to enjoy myself as much as possible. I have learned to be independent and self-sufficient, but also to truly appreciate the wonderfully diverse community of people in which I am a member. I find myself constantly revising my opinions and beliefs, and am delighted to see that my peers and professors are doing so as well. My college is a place where I am constantly becoming. The beauty of this process is too comlpex and wonderful to even begin to describe.

amie

Wesleyan demands your highest contributions. The campus and the student body give you the tools to realize your greatest talents while expecting you to apply it towards the greater community. They provide endless resources and opportunities to achieve beyond what you imagined for your future. It is an experience that I absolutely attribute my current and future sucesses to.

Julia

Going to Wesleyan has changed my life by opening my eyes to a promising career path, boosting my work ethic and allowing me to make great friends. Between sports and field trips, professors and friends, I have grown and changed since I first set foot on this campus. Since that day in August when I said good bye to my dad I became my own person. I discovered a passion for learning when attending my first Earth Science class and found a whole set of careers in Earth Science that I had never before considered. As I strive to finish my undergraduate degree, enroll in a master?s program and become some kind of a geologist I find myself studying material that I enjoy for the first time in my life. Being on the varisty hockey are crew teams has given me a great work ethic and taught me to be a better student. The most valuable thing I have gained since coming to college is a group of lifelong friends. I love, trust and cherish the friends I have made and know that they?ll be a part of my life for many years to come.

Jasmine

There are many ways to describe my emotions of college. Scared, worried, excited and among other things challenged. West Liberty University is a very rewarding experience. You meet new people, exposed to new things and introduced to a new environment. I have never lived in the countryside or in a predominately Caucasian surrounding. Although it can be hard adjusting to a new life dealing with classes, Social Work, English, Biology, being away from home and keeping up with old friends, it is still exciting. I have met people from different walks of life and even some from my own. Where I come from, I could just get up and go. There was a bus or a train at my expense. Here, I?m stuck up on a hill ! I can honestly say the experience is rewarding, very worthwhile. I highly encourage people to try on a different environment then their used to. They'd really be surprised. Me personally, I?ve met people here I?d never imagine having the opportunity of meeting if I hadn?t come here. I am grateful. In fact, I wouldn?t trade it for the world.

Tsuyoshi

College is more than a nurturing ground of an education for the future. Although few would argue that this is important, I am enthralled by the stimulating environment of being surrounded by fellow students thirsty for knowledge. College is where thousands of students can each thrive on their unique passions. Living and learning in this atmosphere, I begin to understand that school in itself is such a valuable experience. This kind of educational experience is what cultivates a person into a social and able citizen, and the type of learning that I value the greatest.

Sara

I would advise myself to get involved in as many activities as possible during my freshman year of college. Freshman year is a time for new beginnings; it's the year when your eyes are most open to your new environment. You are less tied up by committments and routines than you will be at any future point in your college career. Try to meet new people every day and get to know them in a setting where you can discuss, ask questions, and learn from them about what your school offers. Upperclassmen are a tremendous resource because they were most recently in your position. Getting involved in clubs, student groups and other activities will connect you to upperclassmen with similar interests who can give you specific advice. Take the time to expose yourself to a wide spectrum of your campus' options during your first year so that you pick your path with informed confidence. If you narrow down your options and your social circle too quickly, you could prevent yourself from discovering opportunities that are right under your nose! Be open and curious; freshman year should be a time for exploration.

Kevin

OK, self, first of all, don't be so nervous about the changes that everyone tells you college brings. Yes, there are big changes, but you do not have to be a passive fish lost in a vast sea of new experiences; rather, you can be an active agent in shaping your new life. Also remember that getting into college is probably harder than any single assignment you will have to complete during your time at college, so, once again, don't worry. Focus on being involved in outside activities, such as volunteering, social activities, and clubs --- these will complement what you learn in classes. In terms of course selection, try to sample a wide variety of classes, but don't be too hesitant to specialize in a subject area, or to take all the classes offered by your favorite professor. On a lighter note, I would advise you to study the campus map and explore widely in the beginning of the first semester --- learn all of the shortcuts and unknown secrets of the university. You will be glad you did.

Lucas

Experience. I feel like, for one reason or another, I dedicated more than enough time to simple academic tasks rather than experiencing and enjoying the world around me. I was privileged enough to grow up in a vastly diverse country like Ecuador, where some of the most unique environments in the world are closely intermixed within a small territory, but I feel as if I forsaked the many opportunities my setting provided in favor of academics. It?s clear to me that it was my academic record that got me into Wesleyan University, but I neverthless feel like perhaps too much of my time was absorbed by my own relentless attitude towards learning just that which was taught in class. Today, I know that I could have learnt even more valuable lessons simply by discovering and experiencing the knowledge that already surrounded me; from the peculiarities of isolated environmental systems in the mountains, to the social dilemmas of agriculturally-dependent indigenous communities. Every day, I woke up in this world, but I never paid any attention to it, I took it for granted. It was a mistake of the past. Upon my return, I will make up for lost time.

Jessica

As a senior in high school, I was terrified of starting college. For one thing, I didn?t get into my first choice, and was less than enthusiastic about the options I had left, mostly because I had never pictured myself anywhere else. I was also worried about making friends; I?m very shy, and I?d gone to school with the same kids since kindergarten. I didn?t even remember the last time I?d made a new friend, and the thought of immersing myself in a community composed entirely of people I?d never met was petrifying. I wish I could have told myself not to worry about it so much. When I began college this fall, I soon realized there was nowhere else I?d rather be. And even though it was hard to make friends at first, I soon found people to be close to just by being myself. I would have tried to convince my high school self that WHERE I went to college wasn?t important. What was important was opening myself up to the experience of attending college and embracing all the new things this stage of my life has to offer.

Seung

Are you ready to live by yourself and take full responsibility of yourself? Are you ready to study hard? or rather, use your time wisely to do all your studying? Are you ready to take intensive courses where you need to break your barrier to participate and express your ideas? Are you ready to focus? Are you ready to make decisions by yourself? Are you ready to be away from family? Are you ready to encounter new and different people from all over the place? Are you ready to face the realities of students being different from what you ever thought of them? Are you ready to fight yourself? Are you ready to be challenged in your faith/belief? Are you ready to engage in wonderful conversations with your professors? Are you ready to expand your knowledge? Are you ready to think differently and much deeper than ever before? Are you ready to share your wisdom with your peers and people around you? Are you ready for your future? Are you ready to be who you want to be? Are you ready to make yourself valuable? Are you ready to stop thinking/talking and start acting? Are you ready?

Sandy

The advice that I would give to myself is to practice making choices for myself, and not letting myself get influenced by outside factors. In college, there are no parents telling you that you need to study. The professors don't tell you to do your homework (problem sets), they expect you to do it. You make up your own schedule, you chose your classes, you decide to go to a party on friday night or not, you decide to drink, or not. Everyday, you are faced with choices, and high school wasn't like that, we did not have the choice for many of things....You are your own university because you can choose to do the work, attend the lectures, and succeed, but if you don't, then college won't really mean anything. You make up your own rules, and you will pay the price at the end.The ultimate advice would be that the 4 years of high school, getting good grades, staying out of trouble, and well everything in between, no party, no drinking, no smoking pot, weed, and all that other stuff; being in college makes it worth it.

Stephanie

If I could go back in time and talk to myself I would tell myself to work on time management and to be more independent. I relied so heavily on my parents that when I went to this out of state college, it was very hard to transition into a life on my own. In making the move to college life I would tell myself to never forget family, but to also not make them your main source of companionship. I would tell myself not to be afraid to be outspoken and make new friends and most importantly to take classes I would never think to take. College is all about new experiences and part of that is having an open mind to take in the new and unexpected. Without this mindset I would never have taken my first anthropology class and would never have known how much I loved the material. I would also tell myself to mentally prepare for the amount of work coming, because high school was a breeze in comparison, but I would also tell myself that all of the work is so worth the knowledge attained.

Marjorie

Ignore the rankings. Ignore the prestige. Talk to the students, eat in the dining hall, sit in on a class. You're going to be here for four years. You want to make sure that you'll be happy and that you'll learn a lot.

Kirsten

really think about what you want in a school.