Tori
If I were to go back in time, assuming time travel is real (how awesome would that be?!), I'd tell my scared-out-of-my-mind high school senior self to not stress about it. I was constantly worried my senior year: about my grades, about the college decision and acceptance process, about what college would be like, if I was making the right college decision. I realize now how much that stress was completely not worth it -- my first gut instinct and feeling (loving the University of Portland) ended up being the right decision and feeling. I love it here; there is honestly not one thing I would change about it. However, when I was a senior, I was so worried that I was somehow making a wrong decision, that I had not considered all my options, when really, I knew all along that this is where I was supposed to be. For any other high school seniors currently freaking out about your college decision...relax. It will be alright. Trust your gut, evaluate your options, and make the best choice for you. It will all work out in the end.
Eleanor
Honestly, one of the most difficult things about transitioning to college was the bathroom situation. I've always, shall we say, had a shy bowel and in college it seems like you're almost never alone especially when you need to go #2. There are two ways people in college who, like myself, don't want to face the awkwardness of deficating while sharing the room with a fellow student: the first option is to prowl the restroom at odd times of night and hope you get lucky and have the room to yourself; the other more common tactic is to slowly walk in to the restroom, slowly open a stall door and wait for whoever happens to be in the vicinity to leave. Be warned, sometimes it's a while before you can get the bathroom to yourself.
Kristen
I would tell myself to continue studying as hard as I can. High school may seem difficult, and senior year is very busy, but never let that get you down. Once you reach college, you will realize that it was all worth it. All those AP classes you are taking right now? Worth it. All the SAT and ACT tests you have to take? Worth it. Pushing yourself as hard as you can? Worth it. All the hard work will pay off in the end. You will start college ahead of the game, with the credits you recieved from the AP classes. So don't do the minimum work required. But don't forget about your financial situation. Good grades can only help you so much financially. Apply for more scholarships, and hopefully that will help you get through college more easily. But foremost, you are doing good. I got this far by working hard, and I know that is what you will continue to do. So good luck, and look forward to what college has in store for you.
Jessica
I would tell myself to learn real study skills! Skimming through the textbook, and glancing over notes before tests is not enough to even get by in college. After your classes, make a habit out of reteaching yourself what you learned that day in class. Always start your review with what you learned that day, and work your way back to previous lectures. When studying for a test, write out what you're reviewing from memory!! Doing this from memory is SO important because you'll be able to compare what you wrote down, and check it with your lecture notes to see what information you remembered, and what information you need to look over some more. Studying well is the only way to do well on tests, and tests are what most of your grades will be in college.
Junna
Dear Junna,
I know you're probably feeling stressed right now. You've got your two AP classes, soccer practices and games, your job at Kimo's, Student Council responsibilities, still planning for Relay For Life, social life being a struggle, then there's mom ragging you about scholarships and to top it off, don't forget all of your homework. I know you probably cried a couple time, but there has always been something I wanted to tell you, "Just go have fun, okay." You stress out way to much and trust me, you're going to regret it. I've only gone through a couple months of college and when I look back, I realize I didn't make the most of the time I had in high school. All I could think about was making sure I have something to put on my college resume and knowing that I'm pleasing everyone. I learned this the hard way, but you can't please everyone. The best thing you could do is just do the best you can and do it wholeheartedly. College is different, you'll have to learn how to deal with new challenges. Have fun.
Sara
Take a deep breath. Seriously, do it. Ultimately, college is going to be what you make it- if you want to be academically successful, you'll work hard and achieve those good grades. If you want to find parties and be social, you will. If you want to stay away from the party scene, well, no one's forcing you to drink! The important thing is to relax. You're moving into a stage in your life where you are independant and have a chance for a clean slate. You make the choices. You decide if you want to wait three weeks before doing laundry. You decide if you want to go out at night or stay in. You're not checking in with your parents- and that's both scary and awesome. You have to learn to hold yourself accountable, because once you hit college, no one else will. But it's okay, because after the deep breath you're taking now, you'll smile and realize that you can do that. You're going to be studying things you find fascinating, things you want to spend the rest of your life doing. And that'll make you happy.
Jennifer
I would tell my high school self not to freak out. It is not going to be as bad as you think it is. The first semester will be hard. You'll struggle to find friends and just fit in. After that you'll realize you can just be yourself and make the best of friends. Don't worry about not living on campus, and don't focus on the little things. Don't think you need to bring up that you're so much younger than everyone else -- no one cares. It's not a big deal if you are a couple years younger. People will accept you anyway, and if they don't, ignore them. Remember to focus on your classes and study as much as you can, but don't forget to have fun too. And most of all... if you're given a note card for a test, DO IT! It'll save your life. I know that college will be hard to get used to, but you'll do it, and you'll do great. If you have some bad first semesters, its okay. You weren't really going to get that 4.0 anyways.
Angela
Don't give up, and do NOT PROCRASTINATE. I cannot stress enough how important your will power and time management will be, in both high school and college. If I could go back to talk to myself as a high school senior, I would etch these concepts permanently in my mind. Had I taken preparation for college more seriously, I would have been so much better off in transitioning to college life. I would tell myself to grab a firm hold of all those opportunities for higher achievement and financial aid with an empassioned fervor. Pay attention to the advice of your teachers and counselors; it seems overwhelming and uninteresting at the time, but those important pieces of advice could save you from monuments of stress and anxiety. That's not to say that one should never have any fun or down time, but take your free time with a grain of salt, and know that all of your decisions now will directly impact your status tomorrow.
Elyse
I would say to myself that I needed to apply earlier and fill out as many scholarship applications as I could get my hands on. I should not procrastinate on deadlines and serve my community much more. Also, focusing on a phone and a social life is not as important as you may think. Your education will always be with you, your friends may not. In the end, it doesn't matter what anyone thought, what will get you ahead in your life is that diploma.
Alexander
1. Apply, Apply, Apply: for a lot of jobs, scholarships and even schools you may have one school in mind apply to alot, so you have options
2. Remember your still in High School: have fun, goto dances, sporting events and participate in activites
3. Its never to late to play a sport: If you always wanted to play a sport but didnt think you could hack it, do it anyways so you dont regret not doing it.
4. Kiss and Make Up: If there was a person in high school that wronged you or you just didnt get along with, mend the bridge maybe youll make a friend
5.And when doing something/ have the oppurtunity to do something and dont know if you should answer this question: Is it better to regret what you did or regret what you didn't do?