Tesa
Just relax. College is a time to explore your interests and to experience different things. You do not need to know all the answers to your life at the exact moment you walk through those college doors. College is the time to experiment and to find out who you are as a person and how you can impact the world. You do not need to know the answers to who you are as a person. College is the start to the rest of your life. It is the beginning of a new chapter out of your life and you should do everything in your power to experience life and what the education from college can bring to you. Lastly, be open to change. Change happens everyday in multiple ways and sometimes the best things in life come from change. College is the time to change as many times as you want and to just spread your wings and fly. Take a chance and see where life takes you, starting with the world of college by relaxing and taking that leap of faith!
Nicola
My advice is to sit down, take a deep breath, and stop thinking about life as if you have to have it figured out now; that is what college is for! Think you have all your ideas and beliefs sorted out? You don't. You'll meet great people who will influence you. Your ideas will change drastically within the next few years.
Your mind will change, your life will change, and you will change. The best advice of all: Embrace the Change.
Despite what everyone has been telling you, college is not about having a career or a degree; it is about exposing yourself to world (you'll study abroad in Spain, by the way, and it is going to be awesome!) and becoming the best person you can be. Realize that college is an opportunity that most people do not have (you'll learn about this in sociology class and try not to lose Dr. Williams' email address this time) and because of this you should never complain about it. In less than two years, you will be a different person. I like the high school senior me, but I like me now a lot more.
Genevieve
I would tell myself to take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy the ride. College is the hardest thing you will ever do and there will be numerous times in which you will question everything you know. In these moments relax. Find peace in knowing time will go on and you will get through it. And don't forget to have the time of your life. You are only there for four years and it is up to you to decide what memories you create. Push your limits and be open to exploring new things. Going to college teaches you more than academic material, it teaches you who you are. So most importantly, be yourself and be confident in knowing that you alone are good enough. There is no better feeling than when you are perfectly content with who you are. Only after you have embraced who you are and accepted that as perfection will you find true happiness.
Maryna
Thinking back on my transition into university, I can come up with many things that I could have done differently. First off, I wish I had spent more time with my family, because when the time came, I was definitely not ready to say goodbye. If one is moving far away from home, do not overlook the importance of spending that quality time with loved ones before departing. Furthermore, on top of suggesting more emotional preparation, I would advise myself to better mentally prepare myself. Coming from a small high school on Hawai’i where the education system is not as strong as some of the schools’ in the continental United States, I had not fully grasped the amount of knowledge that people at my university would have on top of mine. To cope with this, I would advise myself to just be ready. It helps to quickly make friends in all of your classes, not only so that you have people to eat lunch with, but also so that you have people to form study groups with. Relationships and education goes far beyond one’s high school career, transforming into networks, lifelong friendships, and an ever-expanding knowledge database.
Victoria
Victoria, you think you have it all together. You're making straight A's and your teachers go the extra mile to help you succeed. Your school is so small that everyone knows everyone, even if they are not one of the "cool kids." Guess what Victoria... next year that's all going to change. Next year you will be an adult; you will be expected to make it on your own. Do not expect your professors to lead you by the hand. Do not expect everyone to know your name. The campus will be huge, and if you see someone you know it will be like a family reunion. None of these changes are bad... they are just changes. You will be leaving the protection of a fish tank and entering the ocean. You will need to learn how to fend for yourself, but do not be scared. It is not scary at all, but it is an adventure. It is time to explore the world and find yourself. Believe me, you will like what you see.
Sarah
If I could go back in time and talk to my high school self I would tell myself to relax. I spent so much time worrying about grades in high school, but if I would have learned to manage my time better I would have done just as well, if not better. When it comes to preparing for college, I wish I could go back to tell myself to take a couple more science classes since it's what I'm most passionate about. Instead of taking contemporary living skills, I wish I would have filled that time slot with something that I was actually interested in. When you get to college it's not about what you did or who you were in high school. It's about the person that you choose to become and the person that you allow yourself to be. I shouldn't have spent so much of my time worrying about whether or not I was going to fit in, because in the end the best friends are the ones who accept you exactly for who you are and not something that you wish you could become.
Courtney
As a high school senior, I almost did not want to think about college because of how scared I was. College was indeed just beyond the horizon, but I wanted to forget about it, like it was not happening. The reality, however, was that it was happening. Now, a year later, I would go back and tell myself to not be as anxious. Certainly, college is new and leaving your family for the first time is scary, but my college made the transition extremely smooth. Through the required freshman orientation class, I met most of my friends and made connections with upperclassmen. Colleges and universities want you to succeed. They do not want you to be lonely or feel swallowed up in a sea of faces. Most schools will do their best to implement you into the student as stress-free as possible. If I could go back in time and advice myself as a high school senior, I would try to ease my own anxiety and assure myself that the transition will be a lot more smooth than anticipated.
Kaylee
Now that I know what I know about college life and how difficult it is, I would tell my high school self to really push myself. I worked hard in high school, but now I would tell myself to work harder; to get all As instead of a few As and Bs. I would also tell myself to apply for all the scholarships that I possibly could. School costs money and I didn't realize just how much until I got into college and couldn't afford my classes. One other thing I would tell myself is to really buckle down and study for those AP exams. Those AP exams can count for college credit and can save me some money. I wish now that I had done what I should have done and worked hard to get what I really wanted in life.
Katelyn
I would tell myself to not worry so much about the transition. The first few months are hard but the experience is worth it. It teaches you how to deal with the challenges that come with living with someone. I would tell myself that making friends is not going to be as hard as you think and you meet some pretty amazing people. I would also make sure to tell myself that although the courses are more challenging, college is not as scary as it seems and it is okay to have some fun. Lastly, don't be so hard on yourself; college is a big adjustment and it is okay if you have a hard time with it in the beginning. Don't stress so much!
Tasha
Hey there brain! Stop thinking so much about what you're doing this weekend, and start taking your school work seriously! Listen to your teachers, they've been through a lot more than you have, and you could probably learn a thing or two about life. Taking a year or two off to experience some real adulthood isn't such a bad idea, but make sure you get back on the right track and go have that college experience! Make something of your life! Go make friends, be happy, stay postive, travel as much as you can and always be willing to soak up knowledge! Last but not least: set a goal for yourself, create a dream, believe in yourself, and don't stop until you get what you want out of life! The only experiences you will ever regret, are the ones you didn't take.
Cami
I would first tell myself to not be afriad to get involved in as many activities as I wanted. For the first half of my freshman year I didn't get involved in much and did hardly anything without my roommates and I also was depressed because I had no friends besides my roommates, so I would tell myself to get involved so that I could meet and make more friends. I would then tell myself to not be afraid to stand up for myself. I have had some pretty bad roommates and each time, there have been issues that I probably should have talked to them about, yet I have not wanted to ruffle any feathers, so rarely have I said anything. I would tell myself that it is okay to not miss being home, but it is also okay to be homesick. I have felt both sentiments throughout my time in college so far, and I know that both are normal. And I would tell myself that "out of sight, out of mind" is not true and that I would still stay in contact with my good friends from high school. Finally - YOU CAN DO IT!!!
Alex
Take the full 4 years of a foreign language. Pay closer attention in Chemistry. Get involved in Running Start to get some of the basic classes out of the way. Learn to use all the resources made available - that skill is useful everywhere. Learn to be more assertive, ask more questions and get comfortable being persistent when you need guidance. Get a job in the summer that can transition with you - be an excellent employee so they want you back. And keep in touch with your friends but know that some of the people who you thought were your friends will move on and so should you.
Michelle
Life isnt always what you should assume it will turn out like. Going to college is nothing like attending high school and it was true what other people had told you about college, all the things about always having to read, write, giving in your assignments on time and putting in your own effort will come to work all together in the first semester. Its going to be scary not knowing no body and having to sit in those classes knowing there is nothing else but work to do. On the road to your first semester in college you will have to expirence life, a nightmare that will knock on the door and you will want to wake up, and thats having mom in the hospital because of a stroke, doctors will tell you its the final goodbyes. Feeling alone is a fact, but not wanting to go on is optional. Having only one family member to go to will be tough yet there will be light at the end of the nightmare mom will get better and the first semester will be surprisingly easy and its all because of the little effort that you put in along the way.
Carina
If I could have gone back, I would have told myself to focus more on finding out what I want to do with my life. I'm still fairly ambiguous about this, and hope that I will come to better terms over my time in this school. But if I had been positive about my love for Biology from the beginning, then I would have made sure to stay more focused in the sciences. I also wish that I took more AP exams, because that could have helped with my progress here. Furthermore, I should have been trying to set aside more money for textbooks and trying to find more scholarships. If I could go back and give myself advice, it would definitely involve being more aware of the amazing expenses that college burdens one with.
Kealey
Time travel is an interesting concept. If it were invented, I would choose to go visit myself a year ago and tell myself the essential knowledge to help me improve my transition into college. There is some very important advice I would give myself. First, I would tell myself to make the most of time at home while you have it and stop counting down the days in a negative way. College is a good thing; think of the number of days as that many more that you get to spend at home, each and every one of those days is a gift. Next, I would tell myself to not fear branching out once you get to college. It is important to let go of the past and embrace the present. Don’t spend so much time talking to people back at home and meet many new friends. Finally, don’t lose the study habits that you learned so well in high school from your advanced teachers. They are essential to succeed while in college. Have fun with your transition to college; you are one lucky girl to go to the University of Portland, embrace it! Keep the faith.
Chelsea
Let change happen. College is the next chapter of your life and you will undoubtedly feel changed by the experiences in college. Don't let them hinder you; let them empower you. Your life's trajectory may be changing, but you are surrounded by an environment that supports and promotes success in both professional and personal lives. Embrace each new experience and grow. I went into college thinking that I would pursue something within arts management, but now as a sophomore I have my heart set on becoming a lawyer and social justice advocate. I would remind myself that changes in dreams and ambitions are not only normal but entirely beneficial. College should make you question what you want out of your life; your career, your personal fulfillment and your relationships. These can be hard questions to ponder, but the satisfaction that is reached when you come to a new moment of self-discovery is hard to beat. Enjoy the process and embrace the change.
Shashana
To get an adequate feel for a college, i highly recomend that you visit it, sit in on a few classes, and if you can, do an overnight stay. Then, choose a college where you feel most at home in the dorms, are satified with the social atmosphere, are excited about the calsses they offer, and feel passionate about finding a future vocation. Once you pick your college, and begin your freshman year, the best actions you can take are to keep an open mind, get involved, take advantage of every new oportunity, make connections with your prefessors, learn all you can from every class, and most of all, enjoy it. There are the best years of our lives, our paths are undeclared and every door is open, we are young! So, have fun, be free, live fast, and enjoy all that life has to offer you.
Rustin
If I could go back in time and tell my high school senior self anything, it would be to set attainable goals and to stay focused on the end. Seeing the trouble I'm going through now, trying to find money to pay for tuiton and working very hard to bring up my GPA from when I gave no care to school, the fun times I had weren't worth it. Knowing that goals, time limits and hard work are what keep you on track, I am now on my way to transferring and receiving an Associates degree in the process. I'd tell myself to keep grades in school up so the process of applying to any college you'd prefer is a much easier process than it would be now with a good GPA and test scores. The path to educational success lies only in you and you have to take it seriously. I would tell myself to strive for greatness and it will be acheived. Taking a fun easy route brings you struggles later on. Start early and things will easily fall into place. Good luck high school me.
Larisa
I would tell myself to go into college and make friends at the very beginning, lots of them. Through those friends I will find a good friend group, and then have other friends to do things with. I would also let myself know that the first month is rough but it gets much better from there. College is a great place to meet people and discover who you are, I have eto take advantage of that.
Kianni
If I could tell my high school senior self anything, this is how it would go.
"Kianni, do not procrastinate about finding scholorships and ways to pay for school. Finding money and being able to pay for the next 4 years will solve so many problems of your problems. Don't take the easy courses, take as much AP courses as you can! It will help prepare you for long lectures and a lot of reading. Study, learn good study habits and different techniques of studying and taking notes. It might surprise you on how much you learn when you change your study habits. Lastly, enjoy high school. College is fun but, you're also an adult who is thousands of miles away from your family. Don't take advantage of being close to home and always counting on mommy and daddy. When you're away you're all on your own. Good luck and I know you will have fun and succeed in college"