Deborah
All through middle and high school, I was told that I was very smart. I was placed in all gifted classes and received wonderful grades. However, I didn't always feel that I worked very hard. Occasionally, I felt challenged, but the majority of the time, I did not feel this way. When I got to college, it only took a few low grades to realize that I now had to start working incredibly hard to earn decent grades, and that sometimes, even if I tried very hard, I would not always get a good grade in a class. I wish I had been able to better prepare myself for the fact that I am truly closer to an average student, rather than the genius student that I was always made up to be.
Lauren
Hey Lauren, it's yourself as a First Year at the University of Virginia! Yepp, you made it to the school of your dreams. All of that hard work does pay off in the end. Now, the first couple of months of your senior year are basically going to suck! That old boyfriend isn't going to last very long though, the man of your dreams will finally ask you out, and he is a lot closer to you than you think. Then, you have to make it through that Physics Research Project you got yourself into. You'll get close to finding the density of pure dry ice, but what you'll really get out of it is that Physics isn't what your really cut out for. God has a bigger and better plan for you. In fact, He even tries to trick you up and offer you a scholarship for Physics at JMU, but don't fall into that trap and don't cry so much over the decision. It all works out in the end! And give Brooke a big hug before you leave, but don't worry. She won't forget her big sister!!
Matt
Everything you know is about to change. Your entire life is about to be uprooted and placed in a new, unfamiliar setting. Over the short period four years, you will find you have changed more than you have in your whole lifetime. Don't be afraid, because these four years are the best thing that will ever happened to you. Don't worry about holding on to things that you have been attached to all your life. These things will fade away and new ones will come to take their place. You will transition from the young high school kid into a grown man. This is a lot to happen in the span of four years, so be prepared. Dont hold back from new things. Be sure to find a few good friends and stick with them until the end. I guarantee these people will stay with you for the rest of your life. Learn something outside of school at least every week. Never be content with what you know. Most of all, be comfortable and confident in yourself and in the decisions you make. Only then can you learn to become who man you are truly meant to be.
Katherine
To listen to myself and do what I want, take the classes that I want, and don't worry so much about requirements, etc.
Deborah
The first thing i would tell myself is to take advantage of professor's office hours as well as teaching assistants. Establishing good relationships with these people is crucial to academic success and can provide one with so many opportunities as these are the people who give grades and write internship and scholarship recommendations. I waited almost an entire semester before I realized how much these relationsips could influence my academic experience.
On a different note, I would also reassure myself that there is no reason to be nervous about meeting people and being social. No matter what, there will always be people around to talk to and simply be with. There are so many students at the university that it is always easy to find people who share common interests.
Brian
Learn to separate your schoolwork from the other aspects of your life. If you don't learn to do this, you will only cause yourself extra stress, and it will take away from your overall quality of life. Do not worry about your test grades once you have taken tests because worrying about them won't change anything. It is important, especially while adjusting to college to be on the lookout for lessons to be learned about life in general, not just academic lessons. I think you'll make it further in the long run if you learn as much as you can about life in general, and college is a great time and opportunity to do this. Overall, do not cause yourself more stress than you have to, try to learn from your failures without dwelling on them, do not hold unreal expectations for yourself, and stay true to your beliefs and morals as people will generally respect you for doing so.
Kayla
Learn to be more outgoing. studying is time consuming, but a social life is important too. take the time to make a lot of friends freshman year.
Wing
Do not be pressured by your parents to go to this school simply because of the prestige, ranking, and practicality of the possibility of a career in business. This school is far too difficult for you to gain high marks in because of the disparity between the majority of the students' academic upbringing and yours. These students have a city mentality and you are from a town. You should go to a place that is much tighter knit and friendlier with a much more lower middle class atmosphere. Do not go here simply because the financial aid is so much higher than any other university. Do you really want to substitute money for your happiness? These people cannot begin to ever recognize where you come from. They will never understand how to be humble. Regardless of the friendliness they exude at the campus visits, there is a duplicitous coldness to these people that you should have picked up on immediately. You were never a math and science type of guy. You knew all along since you were a kid that you had talent in artistic endeavors that require a school with more artistic outlets. Regardless of this opportunity, choose wisely.
Kaitlin
I wouldn't give myself any advice. I wouldn't want to change my experience at all, these have been the best two years of my life so far and I've loved every minute.
Jason
My time as a second-semester senior was full of apathy, in part because I was ready to graduate and head off to college. Part of my attitude, in retrospect, was fuelled by the idea that college would be always great and always perfect. Ultimately, college is a great place; I'm learning incredible things, making new friends, trying new things, and having a great experience. However, there have been bumps along the way, many of which I didn't anticipate when I was still in high school. People preparing to make the leap to college need to know this, because accepting this reality will make overcoming college's challenges much easier. When you hit tough times it's important to not lose track of the big picture.
Other than that, it's easy to lose track of the fun you can have in college. Have some fun! Go out on a weekday night sometime and cause some chaos. You might not get another opportunity to have fun like this, because for many people graduating means heading off to the real world and a career-oriented environment.
Caitlin
To worry less about what college life will be like because the choices and opportunities are numerous - there is something here for everyone. To have fun, try new things and take each moment as something to learn from and appreciate.
Mark
just get through high school, and take as many college classes as possible cause they r much harder here
Jessica
Do all of your work ahead of time!
John
For starters, don't start smoking. It's a bad habit, some girls don't like it, and it's going to become quite the expensive hobby. Don't hang out with people from work who are older than you-- you will have a lot more fun just spending time with your new college friends. Live with someone who goes to school your second year, not an immature high school friend. Take advantage of your advisor's and professors' office hours, and don't be afraid to ask to get into classes that are already full. Take the classes you want to take, even if the interfere with your work schedule. Think of school as a job that will pay you further down the road. If you miss a class or two, don't get depressed about it and stop going for the entire semester. Buy a laptop, not a desktop. Make use of the library or study lounge-- you won't get any work done in your dorm room. Lastly, don't sleep with your girlfriend's roommate the night she leaves for Christmas vacation. It might be fun at the time, but you'll pay for it later!
Daniel
Finding the right college begins by doing your homework. Read up on the university you are thinking about attending. If a school states that it has 12,000 undergraduate students and that is overwhelming to you, then mark that school off your list. Once you have researched the school, VISIT. Universities tend to embellish when describing different aspects of university life on their websites, the only way to discover the truth is to go there yourself and talk to students. Finally, talk with financial aid counselors about the school?s policy. If you need money for school and they aren?t willing to give you any, then you should not be willing to give them the time of day.
Keep a balanced schedule. Pick interesting classes and make sure to have at least one friend in a class, that way you can study together and have a great time doing so. Make sure to digress by joining a club that interests you. Finally, go to a party or two. College is the last time you will be able to be slightly wild and get away with it, so I advise you to take advantage, but do not go overboard.
David
Students and their parents need to keep in mind that there is not a single best college. Harvard may beat everyone else in rankings, but there are other things a college needs to be evaluated on. First of all, don't eliminate anything right away because of price. Instead decide what is the best choice, and then try to make the money work, with financial aid and everything. If it doesn't work, then you can try something else.
When you start making a list of colleges, begin with a big list of colleges that have the type of program your intested in. Then narrow it down by thing that are important to you, like campus size or availability of extracurriculars, sports, community service, research opportunities, or social groups such as fraternities and sorrorities. By looking at all these criteria and doing some research, you can figure out which college is the best match for you. You should go from a big list down to a short list, and from that list you can make your final decision.
John
You get from the college experience what you put into it. If you are determined to make a difference, to make memories that will last a lifetime, to succeed in the present and in the future, you will.
Bailey
For me, I knew I wanted to go to UVA because I cried when i read my acceptance letter. None of my other acceptances moved me in that way. In order to truly enjoy college life, become as involved as possible without overloading. I would also recommend attempting to get involved in the greek life on campus. If it isn't for you, you can always quit. The greek life truly introduces many ways to socialize and help the community.
Adrianne
Forget about name and prestige. Look for the college that suits your learning style (i.e. class size, academic or career focused, emphasis on seminar or lecture) and for the college that suits your social life.
Joseph
The biggest mistake most of my friends made: many of them fell in love with a school taking a campus tour and decided that was their first choice and left it at that. THIS IS A BAD IDEA! To get a feel for what a school is REALLY like, take a campus tour but also stay a weekend with a friend or through a university program that assigns prospective students a room with current students for a weekend. Then the prospective student can get a feel for the kind of people he or she should expect to see at the school as well as the type of activities he or she would consider on the weekends (fraternity/sorority parties, hiking/camping, video games, intramural sports, etc). If the main weekend events do not appeal to the prospective student, that student should consider other schools. For example, those opposed to drinking should not attend Virginia Tech and those that plan on partying 7 days a week should not attend an academic powerhouse (like the University of Virginia =] ). Finally, everyone wants to go far away for college until they realize they miss home; and everyone will miss home at some point.