Crystal
Make sure you are getting the best college for the money. Many colleges are good, but check the employment statistics especially for the field you want to go into. Make sure that the financial aid process is easy and efficient. The worse thing happens when the school promises you money and does not deliver or if the financial aid process is complicated.
Joanne
Visit the college beforehand and talk to some of the students that go to that college besides the tour-guide (they are biased). I also reccommend to attend a class of your choice that, that school offers and see if you enjoy it!
Catelyn
First, determine what you want from your college experience. Talk with your parents and determine what qualities you desire in a college, such as the size, public/private, extraciricular activities, class size, cost, average SAT/ACT score, location, etc. Conduct research to determine schools that have qualities that are desired. Narrow the search down to 5-10 schools, keeping in mind that some should be safety schools, target schools, and reach schools. Make sure these schools include programs that you or your child wants to study. Deeply research these schools and try to talk to students and alumni of these schools. Visit each of these schools and take notes. Apply to schools that seem to fit and you will be happy and succeed there. After recieving acceptances, try to visit these schools again during their "accepted students" days to get a better feel for the school.
After making your decision, be excited! You will meet many new and different types of people who have had varying life experiences and you can learn from each of them. A good balance is necessary. Become involved in activities that interest you, but never forget about academics, it IS the reason you're there!
Jeannette
Some people do better in bigger environments, and some do better in smaller ones. It's important to think about how much you like being able to walk around and recognize people and feel like you are known. The best part of my college experience has been the feeling that I really belong at UVa, and that there is a place for me. I like being surrounded by people who are extremely motivated, although at times it is stressfull. The best thing I did was to take a year off before I started school, because I grew up a lot in that year, and then I was really ready and excited to go to college and start learning. I was a little burnt out after high school, and the year off helped me put everything in perspective, and realize what I wanted to get out of college, which also helped me choose the right one for me.
Morgan
go somewhere that fits you. visit the school first, and if you can spend an entire weekend/day there and visit some of the classes. see if the school has any majors you would be interested in.
Alex
so much of college is learning how to live on your own. it is a good idea to look beyond the actual academic aspects of the school and understand what one will spend their time doing besides homework and what the area has to offer in regards to that.
Mohammad
Don't just look at academics or athletics, go to the school and see the environment; check out if you know you will fit in or be able to live in that sort of environment to help you mature your personality.
Soyeob
Harvard is great. So is Stanford. However, college is about finding one's own place that can help you to grow as a strong individual. This place does not necessarily have to be one of Ivy League schools because it is more important that a student feels 'right' to be at the particular school, than to blindly aim for schools with fancy Latin titles on their gates. The truth is, as long as the student finds his or her right place to mature academically, while enjoying college experience, it does not really matter if that school is rates as top 10 schools on Princeton Review.
If you want to challenge yourself academically and feel that these prestigious schools are right for you, then by all means, go ahead! But my point is that you should thorougly research different colleges to find the college that is best fit for you. I know that this is an exciting yet scary time of your life because this is the first major decision you have made in your life. But dont worry, you will make the right decision in the end as we all did. Good Luck and enjoy your college!
Hanh
Choose a school that has the programs you want and at the same time is challenging.
Aaron
Don't stress. Stressing about things clouds your judgment. For parents encourage your kids to look at many schools but not in an intimidating way. Students don't stress about the schools you get into, because more than likely the school end up choosing will be the best school for you. Once at school, get involved in as much as you seem necessary and make social connections. Stressing about classes and girls and that stuff just makes the experience more difficult. Try to live in the moment and take a serious but still collected approach. Don't have regrets make the most of what you have at your fingertips.
Sharon
Dear Student,
Please remember that the college process is about YOU. Not your parents, not your teachers or classmates or siblings or future children. No matter what anyone else says, going to college is about what you feel comfortable with. Simply follow these easy steps to a succesful hunt for higher education:
Step 1. Take everyone else's expectations, and throw them out the window.
Step 2. Repeat.
Wherever you go, whatever you do, college is NOT the definitive factor of your future life. You are the most important person in this decision, so don't let the pressures of others' expectations get in your way. Happy hunting.
Sincerely,
A College Student
Miles
Lets kids visit on their own and stay with a friend because they have to get a taste of the social scene, fraternity parties etc. Just tell them to be careful at parties because many schools have a huge ammount of date rate/acquaintance rape. Tell them not to drink more than one or two drinks if they're girls, and not to be afraid to seem weird by running away or making a fuss, and not to be afraid to hurt a guy who is coming on to them. Tell them not to turn down opportunities, but be smart at all times and trust the voice in their head. Take classes that interest them, not just what they think they should take. Go somewhere where they feel at home on campus. People don't realize that the education students recieve comes mostly from what they do out of class with their friends, with volunteering, culturally, and by being on their own. Academics is not as important as becoming a discerning human being. Wherever they go they will be happy, for the most part.
Danny
Make sure you do your research on the school you wish to attend. Ask the financial aid office all the questions that you feel need to be answered in order to ensure that you can enjoy your university experience without having to deal with the economic struggles that might face you if you do not prepare yourself during the summer. On that note, make sure that you use the summer before you go to college wisely. Prepare your personal life by ensuring yourself that you do not have any distractions back home that might cause you trouble when the going gets tough in your first semester. Apart from that, I wish you all the best of luck! WA-HOO-WA!!!
Mary
To parents...
I would let your children choose the school they want keeping their best interest in mind. If the school doesn't work out for them, then they can always transfer. Also, don't let the cost of a school restrict your options; there are plenty of scholarships and financiad aid opportunities!
To students...
Don't pick a school based on where your best friends are going. You will have the opportunity to make many new friends in college and will find that they are just as great if not better than your high school friends. It's hard separating from your friends at the beginning, but you will still be friends with them and can make many more!
Pick a school based on what you are looking for in a college not based on its "reputation" or where people from your hometown typically go. Make sure the school suits your criteria for a social life because that is very important. HAVE FUN!
Courtney
It is important to look at all aspects of a university before attending. Just because a school is reputable, does not necessarily means it is the right one for you. The top schools in the nation are at the top because they are academically rigorous and expect the best from the students they admit. If you are smart, but are not driven to excel in a competitive environment, then you might find youself better suited for a smaller school with more resources to help students succeed. The larger the university, the more thinly-spread the resources, meaning that students must make the initiative to ensure their own success. Nobody will hold their hand and make sure they graduate on time or get good grades. The responsibility to succeed lies within themselves at these large, top-tier schools, so make sure you can handle the atmosphere before committing.
John
The easy part is narrowing down your choices based on academic interests, location, and financial concerns. But truly finding the right college is all about the feeling. Visit the school. Walk around campus in between classes. Do you feel comfortable around the campus among the crowd of students? Visit the library in the evening. Do you identify with the study habits of the students there? If you can, spend a weekend at the school and participate in the social life. Obviously you will feel somewhat foreign to any school you are visiting. But when you find the right place, you should feel some longing to return to the school you visited. It can range from a mild curiosity to a strong desire but something inside you will draw you back to the school where you really want to be. Finally, resist outside pressures from parents and other relatives on your college decision. You only get one college experience and it should be entirely your own. When you arrive at school, enlist as much advice from older students as you possibly can. They are the ones with good recommendations and unfortunate regrets but either way, you can learn from their wisdom.
Sarah
I was always adamant that when I went to college, it would be far away from my home state. To my surprise, after being forced to visit my own state university, I felt immediately at home there. I wound up choosing that very same school, and my time at college so far could not have been happier.
I learned from my own experience that the right college is not necessarily going to be the one you always envisioned, but when you do find the college that is perfect for you, that arduous application process will all make sense. The best way for you to choose the college that will make you happy is to trust your instinct. If a college feels right, you will be happy there. For parents, the best thing to do is be there for advice, but do not make the decision for your student. College is where you will spend the next four years of your life, so it should feel like a place of your own. Above all ,it should be a place you can envision as home.
Tomi
When you pick your college, consider how competitive it is going to be and determine if you're ready to deal with that competition. To make the most of your college experience, find the balance between academics and social. Find the friends that bring out the best in you; they encourage you when it comes to school and tell you when it's time to take a break from it all.
Terry
I feel that the problem I had in my first year of college as well as in my senior year in high school is I went to college and took classes that appealed to everyone, but myself. College is a chance for you to explore areas that interest you. So when picking out your classes you should find classes in topics you find interesting not simply just to fill requirements. Finding the right college all relies on the individual. A big college campus is not for everyone and it is easy for individuals to get lost in the shuffle. It is important to feel out what kind of environment you feel most comfortable learning in, because inevitably you're in college to get an education not strictly to party. Most importantly, while in college students should get involved in clubs that they are interested in. Not only do they prove outstanding for resumes, but students many times meet longtime friends through these various organizations.