Jalyce
I knew what college I wanted to attend. Most likely, high school seniors know what college they want to attend. The problem is wanting to please everyone else. I was fortunate enough to have a number of advisors who cared enough about my future to tell me where they thought I should go to continue my education. Nobody thought I should have gone to Virginia Commonwealth University. Everyone had an opinion, but I had the courage to think that my opinion counted the most.
Coming to VCU was the best decision I could have made. I currently maintain a 4.0, I am a student leader, and I have participated in two valuable internship experiences. I am an example of what can be accomplished when you stop letting people tell you what to do and start living the life you planned to live.
Here is my advice to students: write down your goals, what you want out of college, and the environment you want to live in for the next four years. Look at all of your choices and chose the school that will accommodate those requirements. The rest will be history. Live the life you plan to live now.
Kevin
My advice would be to visit the schools during the semester to get a feel of what the campus is like normally. Another advice is to ask from several students about their experiences there. The collective gathering of their experience should be a good indicator of what the school is like there.
Jet
Choose a school based on two things: academics and atmosphere. The school of your choice needs to have the major you want, with possible minors your interested in and room to gow as a student. You want to find a program that is well established, well funded and well recognized in you field of study. Talk to students at that school in the major you're considering for thier honest opinions about its strengths and weaknesses. While you will spend a lot of time studying in college, you also want to be comfortable with where you are going to school. You don't want to be afraid to walk around campus at night or scared to speak about your opinions. You will need healthy activities to help relieve stress and make friends, to maintian a balance in your life. You also don't want to pick a school that is going to cost so much that you have to work two jobs, just to pay rent on an apartment you don't even like. When you find a school that meets your academic needs and you want to spend 4 years there- you know you've found the right one.
Allison
When I was trying to decide on a college to attend, I thought about the qualities of the environment that I wanted to surround myself in for the next four years of my life. I wanted to attend a large school in a city as I had grown up in a small town where I was constantly finding myself bored. Also, I wanted to go to a school with an excellent art program and with students that shared the same open-minded mentality as myself. The moment I visited VCU, all of my desires had been met and I knew that I had found home. My advice to others taking this step in their lives would not be on how to find to right school for them , because when you find it, you just know. Instead, my advice would be to simply be yourself; don't hold back any aspect of who you are as an individual. If you simply embrace who you are, then you will make the most of your college experiences and leave with no regrets.
Jessica
I would say that it is practically impossible for a parent to know exactly what college experience is best for their child- the student needs to find themselves, and then find where they will be the most comfortable in a learning environment. The most important part of a college experience is probably experiencing the diversity of life for the first time. Students should be encouraged to explore foods they haven't tried, or to take a class that they were afraid to take, or make friends with people they hadn't considered talking to before. I feel like this is the beginning of the rest of your life, and you begin to construct yourself as a unique individual. It is important to remember how helpful this growth and change will help you for the rest of your life.
Miranda
My advice would be to look beyond the price- look at what the college or university offers (extracurricular activities, values, diversity, etc). It's not only the education that will make your four years unforgettable, but it's going to be the people you meet and the activities you participate in.
Megan
Consider all you're options. Do not chose a school based on one thing you like but step back and look at all of the aspects of a school. One school may have a great athletic team but when the student is injured, will he/she like the school they are at? I came 5 hours from home to a school where I knew no one. I made the best out of my situation and became an All-CAA field hockey star. I was pushed out of my comfort zone and that has caused me to grow, and that is the whole reason for college, to learn and grow.
Stefanie
Remember that half of the college experience is not the books students read, or the lectures they listen to. It is about learning to make decisions, creating opinions, developing one's character, and realizing the impact that one has on the world and the relationships they develop. Choosing a school can be difficult, but do not over-stress about finding the "perfect" one. Most of college is what the student makes of it. Ultimately, it will be down to how hard the student works for success, and if they indulge in their curiosity of the subject he/she chooses to study. Also, few undergraduates realize that the "perfect" student does not exist. Be prepared to occassionally fail, and understand that one can always move past it. Instead, use failure as a guideline for the future. It is extremely damaging, and common, for students to try too hard. Choose a college that provides de-stressing activities, and enough time to experience live outside of the library. Also, do not be afraid of new experiences, and take any opportunity available. Such experiences can take a student much further than they could imagine. Most importantly, be proud and enjoy yourself.
Philip
College is one of the most valuable expierences in life, so you really have to choose the school that is right for you. From personal expeirence I have to say I had to fight my parents pretty hard to come to VCU. I knew it was the right choice for me and so in my mind it was well worth fighting for. After a year at this school I am the happiest I have ever been. From the parents perspective I understand how difficult it must be to let go and make sure they are doing what is the best thing. The thing to keep in mind is that it is the students life and to get the most out of college they must be happy with thier surroundings. The people who get the most out of the expierence are the ones which put the most into it.
Justin
Consider your long term goals... There are a number of excellent and expensive colleges. Shoot for the best school you can find that works for you. You should also realize that graduate school is more important, so save money in undergraduate school, so you can afford the nicer graduate school. If you network, try your best and a little bit more, you will get where you want and need to be.
Finding what you want to do with your life should be your top priority. It will save you time, and money. Once you find out what you want to do, you should make sure that you progress towards that goal every day (even on the weekends).
Daniel
Some advice I would give to new students would be to get out and just try everything. Test out all of the clubs and try to get to know people. Not only could you find something you could really love, but you may make lifelong friends and get connections for after you graduate. Try to be as open as you can to new ideas, new people, and new places. I see some people who hole themselves up in their dorm room and play video games for all of their free time, and it makes me sad that these people aren't even trying to make friends and they seem to be putting all that energy into something that won't give back to them. I guess what I'm trying to say is to try to see what "college life" is all about. Try to make it the best years of your life.
Kristin
For finding the right school it's very important to tour the campus. I can't stress that enough. I once was interestead in attending Randolph-Macon but, after the tour i realized the campus, and the school itself, was not for me. If you are looking for certain programs, if you want to know the nitty gritty details, DON'T be afraid to ask. Ask questions about anything and everything you want to know. Someone will either be able to answer you or they won't. And if no one can answer your questions I STRONGLY recomend rethinking your choices.
As for making the most - don't be afraid to try new things. But, don't push yourself. There is nothing wrong with staying in your comofort level. Schools tend to offer you new chances and oppurtunities that help you to test the waters. Take advantage of them!
Danielle
Don't let cost stop your child from attending the school that they want too. When it comes to college, its going to be the best next four or five years od your life, make the best of it because when its over its time to enter the real world.
Brittany
Making the right choice in colleges first depends on the type of education the student wants to recieve. Research needs to be done about which schools provide courses of study in the student's interest group as well as what schools can accommodate any specific financial or learning needs. If the student has no desired course of study, then he/she should attend a community college to get general education classes out of the way before attending a more expensive school. After all these things are researched and decided, visit the schools the student is accepted to. Make a choice in school only after every school has been visited. Taking a tour of campus will make a big difference in the college choice. A school may sound good on paper and then be completely different in real life.
Mitchell
Research is key! Know what you want to get out of your college and what type of location best suits you and go from there.
Mike
Find the best professors. The ones that actually care.
Eleanor
Look at as many schools as possible. Take campus tours and visit the department you are most interested in applying too. Be prepared to face a lot of freedom and know that you will have to be responsible and place work before partying. If you're looking at a school with a city campus take a seminar on city living, how to protect yourself and what warning signs could indicate danger. Familiarize yourself with important buildings like the library, student commons, the campus police office, the gym, and student health. Call home often! :)
Amanda
Spend the night there first. and explore EVERYTHING.
Jennifer
The best advice I would give parents and/or students for finding the right college would be to really research the universities they are interested in. Go to them and visit, through this they will be able to learn what kind of people attend there, what the atmosphere feels like on campus and if they would feel comfortable. They should also find a university that really supports and offers the best classes and programs for the students interests and major. Education is the main reason for college and it should be made sure that education is first in mind when choosing a university.
Lane
visit colleges and spend the night. spend at least a few days there, make sure that the campus isnt dead on the weekends. start planning your course loud early, as well as planning for your finances. take students loans, and don't live more than one year in the dorms.